One more thing, You said you were considered very good looking in your hey day. I’ll tell you this being an average guy. Good looking guys WAY overestimate their game. They tend to think that they get laid a lot because they are so smooth and have game when the real reason they are getting laid a lot is because they are good looking. I’ve known guys like this. An average looking dude could say the same things they saying but it won’t have the same result.
Tulio is correct that these Game idiots are lying when they say women don’t care about looks. Bull! Let me tell you something.
You know what gets women really, really horny and turns them into insatiable multi-orgamic nymphomaniacs who want to fuck every day, sometimes multiple times a day, or sometimes for hours on end? It ain’t Game.
It’s looks! Women want to fuck good-looking men. Good-looking men are what make them horny. Of course, it helps if these guys have Game too, but the idea that the female sex drive is not motivated by looks is insane.
Women are just like men in that sense. Sure, women say they don’t care about looks, but handsome men are what get them wet and pushes their panic button. Good-looking men are very important to turn on many female’s sex drives. If her man is not good-looking, no matter what she thinks of him otherwise, she may start cutting off the sex because a lot of women don’t like to fuck balding, geeky, overweight guys who look and act like Omegas. They might like the guy just fine, and maybe even romantically she may love him, but physically, it’s just not there, and women often need looks to turn on the sex drive. If there’s no looks, the sex drive goes off, and they quit doing it.
One last thing. While a great looking guy with crap Game is often way more incel than you think, there is one thing that is killer for getting women. And that is a guy who is drop-dead male model handsome who also happens to have killer Game.
Great looks plus great Game is like an unstoppable force. You will be attracting women everywhere you go.
You go out with girls, and if you meet their Moms, their Moms will act like they want to fuck you.
You go out with a college girl who lives at her parents’ house, and her hottie Mom walks in drunk wearing skimpy clothing while you are on the couch, meets you and then proceeds to shamelessly flirt with you right in front of her daughter’s face.
Or you go out with a girl. You go to her place and meet her Mom. Later in the evening, your date confides in you, “Hey, my Mom thinks you’re hot. She asked me if she could borrow you for a night. Can you believe that?”
And so will their sisters.
You will go to a college girl’s house, go to your date’s room and her Mom will come in the room and openly flirt with you. Then her younger sister will come into the room and start flirting with you right in front of your date’s face just because sisters compete. Then your date will get furious and throw her sister out of the room.
You will go out with a girl who lives at home, and every time you show up, her 14 year old sister always looks at you funny like she’s hypnotized.
Then your girlfriend says, “You know what? My little sister really likes you. She can’t stop talking about you. She thinks you’re the hottest thing on Earth. She acts like you cast a spell on her. What’s weird is I’ve dated a lot of guys. I’ve a lot of guys over here, and she’s never cared about any of them. You’re the first one she ever reacted to like this. She never acted this way with any of the other guys.”
You start making a lot of female friends and end up being around females most of the time, which, assuming you don’t hate females, is pretty fun. Lots of guys hate being friendzoned, but if you already have relationships going on, you shouldn’t care about being friendzoned.
A lot of guys want to screw every woman they know, even the ones who just want to be friends. This is a typical male caveman mindset, and most women hate it. So you end up being friends with a bunch of women and hang around with them all the time. It becomes clear early on that they just wants to be friends, and you simply say you are fine with that. As I said, friendzoning is irrelevant as long as you are dating too, in which case, friendzoning should not be frustrating, insulting or enraging.
Pretty soon your new female friends will start trying to fix you up with their friends. In this case, what they are really doing is fucking you by proxy. Your female friend wants to fuck you on some level, but something is preventing her. So she fixes you up with her friends and then gets to listen to the gruesome details as her friend recounts the play by play of the dates. This way she gets to fuck you by proxy and still not actually do it physically with you, which is something she is trying to avoid.
You will have girls who are friends, and you will go over there and hang out, and they will fix you up with their girlfriends. You will get to be friends with their sisters, often the younger ones. The younger sister will see the older sister fixing her friends up with you, and she will get jealous and then pull you aside and try to fix you up with her friends. Why? Because females are ridiculously competitive.
With your female friends, you just leave them alone. Don’t mess with them. A lot of them will be married or with guys anyway. Just be really cool, hang back and be friendly and don’t try anything sexual other than looking at them and fantasizing. Leave yourself open, and they might start grabbing you and whatnot. Arrange “friend dates” with your female friends like tennis dates or study dates. It’s not uncommon for these “friend dates” to take a sexual turn towards the end of the date.
Also if you just hang back, respect your female friend and do nothing but devour her with your eyes while “leaving yourself open,” after a few months, quite a few of your female friends will start trying to seduce you.
Why? I have no idea. I think women are used to guys who try to grab them all the time and can’t be friends with a woman, and they are intrigued that you keep your hands off of her, while at the same time you are a hottie with Game. For some reason, after a while of this, a lot of them will try to seduce you.
The thing is most guys freak out at being friendzoned. Most men try to screw any female who gets significantly close to them with the end result being that most men are simply not capable of being friends with a female. So women are intrigued by Mr. Hottie with Game Dude who for some mysterious reason isn’t trying to fuck her. You’re not desperate either, as she knows about your dating exploits.
That you already have women you are involved with signifies what the Gamers call “abundance mentality.” By the same token the fact that you are not grabbing at your female friend all the time like most idiots can also signify “abundance mentality.” Your female friend will think you are not desperate, and you are sexually satisfied enough to not try to fuck her just because you can afford to because you already have your hands full. Also the fact that you are not trying to screw her all the time is intriguing, and it sets off their curiosity.
And after a while, a lot of them get frustrated and just grab you. I think women find “abundance mentality” very intriguing because most guys come across desperate like they haven’t been laid in years, and they are moving Heaven and Earth in a desperate attempt to fuck any woman at any cost. Women are somewhat disgusted at such guys, as they are coming across as desperate and pathetic, and women see them as lame and Beta. But this satisfied Hottie Cool Guy who is respectful enough to keep his hands off you and is not even 1% desperate? Now that is a very intriguing fellow, and it spikes her curiosity.
What often follows it that after months to years of this, quite a few women will try to seduce their Hottie Cool Guy friend.
A lot of females get frustrated if you don’t try to screw them pretty fast. I have been on dates where girls said, “So, are you going to kiss me or not!?” or “Are you going to fuck me or what!?”