Category Archives: Gender Studies

Does a Body Count Matter with Sexual Partners?

Answered on Quora.

I think it matters for straight women.

For straight men, I am not so sure. Quite a few will refuse to date a woman who has a high lay count. But not me. I have had gf’s who had experienced 50 sex partners, 3ways, lesbian affairs, you name it. This did not bother me at all, and I had long-term love affairs with them.

Men don’t care about inexperienced women. My last gf was an 18 year old girl who not only was a virgin, but she had never been kissed! It was fine with me.

Women are different. If a man is too sexually inexperienced by too late an age, females may find him to be a disgusting nerd, loser, Beta, Omega, etc. I don’t know what to say about that, but if you are still a kiss-less virgin at age 25–30, I would not go around shouting it to the skies.

If a man has a high lay count, in straight society he is simply a stud. If word gets around about his lay count, he may well get dates based on that alone, as a certain type of female is attracted to guys with high lay counts. He’s a stud, and she wants a stud. A lot of females think this way, but it is more common when they are younger.

I knew a guy in college who were the wildest womanizers you ever met. He would literally date and have sex with 3–4 females every single day. Supposedly he was an evil predator or something in the new feminist way of thinking, but back then, everyone loved these guys. Females would hear about him, and their first reaction would be, “How do I get in on this?” They would almost literally line up outside his house and even take a number to get a shot at him.

This question is difficult because I sort of have to divulge my numbers. All I will say is I have dated over 200 females in my life. Of course I didn’t have sex with all of them. You can extrapolate a lay count from that. At my age (60), women actually ask how many sex partners you have had. It’s part of the “job interview” before they date you or early in the relationship.

Although of course there are women who get excited when they hear my numbers, there are others who have flat out rejected me. I am actually losing dates from having been too much of a player! A couple of women have recently told me that I am too much of a slut and consequently they won’t date me. One said she had a rule that the men she dated could have a maximum of 20 sex partners, no more.

So you can get to a point in life where you have had sex with so many women that other women won’t even go out with you! Who would have thought?

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Do Homosexuals Suffer from Rectal Fissures?

Answered on Queera. Sorry folks, I’m all fagged out today for some reason. 

People who practice receptive anal intercourse can absolutely get fissures. In fact, fissures are the most common problem to result from this kind of sex. In straight porn, a lot of the women doing anal scenes are getting fissures.

If a gay man practices receptive anal sex, he can absolutely get fissures. That said, it’s certainly possible to have this sort of sex and never get a fissure. Also, not all gay man practice this sex act.

I would imagine that gay men as a group definitely have an elevated rate of rectal fissures.

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Are Most Gay Men “Size Queens”?

Answered on Queera. I’m sorry folks, this whole day just went gay on me. It was fagged out before it even started. So I guess it’s either move to Frisco or go back to bed. Blankets and pillows, here I come!

Not gay so it’s hard to answer, but I would say that a lot of them are. There are enough of them who are like this to where we have an actual designation of a subtype of gay men. I seriously doubt if they are all size queens though. It’s probably just some unknown subsection of them.

Let’s do a poll!

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How do Gay People Identify Other Gay People?

Answered on Queera.

I can’t speak for lesbians at all and I can’t really speak for gay men. I can only speak from the POV of a straight man.

I don’t think they have the faintest idea who is gay. How would you be able to tell? As evidence, gay men have been going after me, a straight man, and most of my goodlooking straight friends for decades now. This has happened to me so many times I can’t even keep track of it. So either I act gay (Do I? I have no idea, but I hope not), or they have no idea who is gay and who isn’t. Incidentally, none of my friends who they went after all the time acted gay (as in effeminate) either. However, many of them were rather soft men, and they were all extremely handsome, often in a very pretty or even feminine way. They were “pretty boys.”

Think about it. If gay men are constantly hitting on straight men, they’re either sociopaths who like to go after straight guys, or they have no clue who is gay and who isn’t.

I know one thing. Gay men go after good-looking men. I had a few straight friends who were male models, and they told me they were fighting off gay and bi men night and day.

There is a lot of nonsense about some Gaydar that gay men have that allows them to figure out who is gay and who is not. I have no idea if this works, but my experience in life is that this Gaydar doesn’t seem to work at all or at least it has a huge false positive rate.

Think about it. If this Gaydar works so great, why do gay men swarm on some straight guys like mosquitoes in Alaska?

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Do People Ever Go from Gay to Straight? Are any Conversion or “Correction/Cure” Therapies or Strategies Proven to Work?

Answered on Queera.

Some lesbians have gone from gay to straight. And some straight women have turned lesbian. It happens all the time. Just pick up the paper.

In the lab, some lesbians who were frightened of sex with men were treated with surrogates and became able to enjoy sex with men. However, the lesbians had to be highly motivated to change for this to work.

However, when I studied the histories of many women with early-onset lesbianism, I found what looks like a biological component. Somehow or other, they seemed to have just gotten wired up gay. These early-onset types are often masculine females, in some cases remarkably so. Whatever caused the masculinization of the female probably caused the lesbianism too.

Gay men can’t go straight or even bi past age 15. Nor can straight men change after age, nor bi men. We know this from endless lab studies. We have been trying to turn gay men straight in the lab for decades, and it’s never worked. I know of one sexologist who tried for decades and finally gave up. He kept having gay men coming to him wanting to change, and he started telling them that he could not take their money in good conscience as he was not able to change them.

Sexual orientation looks much more fixed in men than in women. Before age 15, no one knows. There does seem to be some evidence for sexual orientation change in childhood among a few males, but it’s very hard to study such things given the present Pedophilia Sex Panic. Can you imagine getting funding for such a thing?

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Do Some Women and Men Choose To Be Lesbian or Gay? If So, Why?

Answered on Queera, I mean Quora.

Many straight women have gone gay. It happens all the time. And the reverse.
However, many lesbians appear to be true biological lesbians. The lesbianism is early-onset and is often associated with a masculinized female. I’ve studied many of their histories, and it looks biological somehow.

Straight and bi men cannot change their sexual orientation, at least after age 15. Before that, we do not know. I know of one case where a boy went from straight to gay between ages of 9–11. However, choice may not have been involved. Males may be able to somewhat change orientation in childhood, but this is a black hole of theory, as it is never studied.

Some straight men have chosen to live a gay lifestyle, mostly because females have seriously rejected them. This is maybe 5% of gay men, if it is even that high.

Also quite a few straight men choose to engage in varying amounts of gay sex. They prefer women, but they have sex with men on a lesser basis for a variety of reasons. They are simply choosing to do this. Why any straight man would choose such a thing is absolutely beyond me. Among the crowd I grew up, there would be nothing worse than for a straight guy to do such a thing. It was the ultimate taboo.

The number of straight men who have chosen a gay lifestyle must be very low.
Most gay men, 95%+, are biologically gay. They got wired up this way, probably in the womb due to hormonal fluctuations. They had no choice in the matter.

If you have read this far, you can see that sexual orientation is different from sexual behavior, and they do not always line up. Straight men can absolutely choose to engage in gay sex! They do it all the time. But their orientation does not change.

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Why Is Being a Gay Man Looked Down on More Than Being a Lesbian?

Answered on Quora. It’s getting upvoted to Hell by all sorts of non-straights and non-binary folks. I was terrified that they would report me over this post, so it’s nice to see that they like it. I would like to think these good folks for upvoting my post.

I asked my mother this before because she used to really dislike gay men, but she had no issues with lesbians. She told me it was the extreme promiscuity that so many gay men practiced and the diseases that often result from this. I think she may have also mentioned anal sex, and yes, most gay men (70%) do engage in this act, which a lot of people find disgusting. She had a look of disgust on her face when she said this. So my Mom’s attitude was, “The behavior of gay men is disgusting.”

She is totally turned around now, and she’s pro-gay men, but this is how she felt for many decades. And I am sure a lot of folks still feel this way.

Straight men, at least those I have been running with my whole life, mostly have a profound revulsion for gay sex. And in most of the crowds I have run with, if anyone found out that a guy was having gay sex, he would be run right out of that crowd and told to never come back. The rule of most straight groups that I have been a member of is that homosexual behavior is absolutely unacceptable in any man in the group. If you want to be part of that group, you can’t be doing things like that.

Of course this is all wrapped up in masculinity. I think a lot of masculinity is simply denial or rejection of male homosexuality. The most masculine men are the most virulently homophobic, contrary to the fake studies you read. When I see a man strutting around with an almost comically exaggerated masculinity, I now think it is as if he is screaming as loud as he can, “I’m not gay, dammit!” I think that is one of the messages that hypermasculinity is trying to convey to others.

If you have read this far, you can see that living life as a straight man at least in my generation (I am 60) meant extreme revulsion and taboos against homosexual sex. Engaging in such behavior would mean all or almost all of your friends would never speak to you again. So don’t even think about it. You can see how straight men growing up like this develop some rather strong attitudes about male homosexuals.

It just hits too close to home, and it is all wrapped up in masculinity, one of our dearest things. Many straight men will fight or even kill to protect their masculinity. And there are gay men, seeming to thumb their noses at the thing we hold most dear. How do you expect us to react? A lot of straight men regard the flagrant rejection of masculinity by so many gay men to be an outrageous affront to one of their most profound values.

In contrast, most straight men could care less about lesbians, and bisexuality in women is considered to be a turn-on by most straight men.

Most straight women don’t seem to have very strong attitudes about lesbians or lesbianism. They mostly just shrug their shoulders. Lesbians do not arouse strong emotions in straights of either gender.

I can tell you right now that many straight women are wildly homophobic. Sure, they have their gay friends, but most of them will not tolerate .00001% of homosexual behavior among their boyfriends, husbands, or the men they date. A recent casual survey found that most young straight women would refuse to date a bisexual man.
There is something about male homosexuality and gay male sex that seems to arouse pretty strong emotions among straights, mostly men but also women.

In contrast, most straights are simply indifferent to lesbians.

I am not trying to justify any of the attitudes above. I am simply telling you why so many straight men think the way they do.

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Is Homosexuality Natural?

Answered on Quora. I don’t know I am answering all these damned gay questions. I think it is because almost all of the gay questions are full of gay people lying their fool heads off. At this point, almost all gays, lesbians, and trans types are some of the craziest and worst SJW’s of them all. They infest the whole Internet and they pitch a line in which almost not one single thing that they say is true. Like most IP groups, gays and trans types are allergic to nothing more than the truth.

 

About as natural as left handedness and probably caused by the same thing. A minority of people are lefthanded due to abnormalities in the prenatal environment. Hormonal abnormalities in the prenatal environment also seem to be implicated in homosexuality. So in left handedness and homosexuality, frankly something has gone wrong with normal prenatal environment. This is why only 10% of the population are southpaws and only 2% of the population are homosexuals.

I suppose we can say that some developmental abnormalities are natural, if not normal. If they were normal, majorities would be lefthanded or gay. If a small number of people experience a developmental disruption that results in them being markedly different, and if these disruptions occur at a steady rate, say 3%, then I suppose we can say that this is a natural process. Perhaps it is natural for say 3% of the population to end up this way due to variations in the womb environment.

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The Underlying Dynamic of all Identity Politics: “The Truth is Objectively Harmful for Our Group, Therefore We Must Lie to Protect Our Group”

  • Gay Politics is propaganda and recruitment advertising for all species of non-straights.
  • Feminism is propaganda for women and hate propaganda against men.
  • MRA is propaganda for men and hate propaganda against women.
  • Antiracism is propaganda for non-Whites and hate propaganda against Whites.
  • Trans politics is propaganda for trans and all species of nonbinary people.
  • BLM is propaganda for Blacks and hate propaganda against Whites.

One thing that all of these groups have in common is nearly incessant lying. Lately it has merged into out and out abuse of science. It’s social science, which isn’t even science anyway (mostly just lies and propaganda), but it’s still nasty to see it abused so much.

The line of all of these groups is that the truth is bad for the group.

  • Feminists feel the truth is harmful to women,  so they lie.
  • MRA’s say the truth is bad for men, so they lie.
  • Gay Politics in particular is adamant that the truth is objectively harmful to gays (in fact, they more or less openly say this) so it is necessary to lie to protect gays.
  • Trans politics feels that the truth is objectively harmful to trans people,  so they have made up a vast narrative of lies to protect trans folks from harm.
  • Antiracists say that HBD truth is harmful to non-Whites and objectively causes racism, so they have to lie to protect non-Whites from racism.

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The Female Sex Drive as Sociologically and Societally Mediated Mechanism

A previous post talked about people who like their sex a bit on the rough side. An incredible number of women like their sex like that. And don’t ask me how I know that. They seem like these pretty, fussy, dainty little angelic virgins when you see them in public, but there’s a whole other side to the Feminine Character.

It’s not that it doesn’t exist, it’s more that it doesn’t get turned on all that much. It’s like there’s a lightswitch on their back and you have to flip that thing into the On position to bring out the latent nympho. And I am convinced by a lifetime of experience that the majority or even the vast majority of women are latent nymphos – they just need the right man to bring it out of them. If he never shows up, the nympho simply never comes out to play, and you end up with a rather puritanical, anti-sex woman with a low sex drive. There are whole societies like this. That is because those societies take that light switch and turn it to the Off position, and it’s hard for women in those societies to turn on the switch.

So you end up with generations like my mother’s. I used to hear the women of her generation sit around and talk, and of course they talked about sex. The general impression was that they were not into it that much, that it was a chore their husbands imposed on them, that men were way too horny, etc. The old male cliche about female sexuality – that women don’t like sex too much. They often said that if they could give up sex for the rest of their lives and just be cuddled and held in bed instead, they would do it. Indeed, older surveys showed up to 2/3 of women checking yes on that statement.

There’s no way that these modern women would settle for that. Most single women that I meet masturbate to orgasm all the time if they don’t have a partner. They range in age from 18-59. Every day or even 3-4 times a day is not unusual. Once they figure out how to get that orgasm, they’re basically addicts. Further, we now live in a society that has taken that switch on females’ backs and turned it to a permanent On position. This is how a society of females acts when you turn that switch on and leave it on. In some ways, they’re almost as horny as men.

The female sex drive has no essential nature. It exists, but only as a switch to be turned On or Off. And who gets to decide if that switch is On or Off? Society. In any given society, the female sex drives of its members is mostly determined by the extent to which society allows it to express.

Turn it Off and you get a society of Puritanical women don’t like sex too much – the old cliche about female sexuality.

Turn that damn thing to On, especially at a very early age – say teens or even early teens, and watch out.

It’s like letting wild animals out of the zoo to roam around the streets. Females are capable of a lot more than you think. It’s just that it doesn’t naturally come out. It needs to brought out of them or simply “allowed”.

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