Category Archives: Gender Studies

Masculinity, Femininity, and Sex in Straight Men

Batman says:

Robert, may be you understand women as well because you have a feminine brain (high verbal IQ high social IQ) as pumpkinperson.com already stated?

The other “macho” part of you come from the fact you have a lot of testosterone.

Yes I have a feminine brain in a way, but I don’t want to be a woman. I want to be a man, and I love being a man. I feel like women are my twins though, which is very strange. It’s like I am one of them, or they are one of me. We are the same. And at the same time, I’m very much a man.

I freak people out. Through my whole life quite a few people have thought I was gay or bi. Usually women and girls thought I was bi because most women are not retarded about such things, and they can figure out if a guy likes women. It’s trivial to figure out if a guy likes women or not, and gay men just don’t like women. For instance, gay men never check out women like straight men do. I’ve never in my life seen a gay man girlwatching, leering at or ogling women like straight men do. They just don’t do it.

Any guy who extremely obviously is a pussy maniac, most females assume logically that he can’t possibly be gay, but he might be bi due to behavioral stuff such as the way he acts. How does a woman know if a man is a pussy maniac? You can tell by how he acts when he is around you. You can tell by how he acts when he is around, especially good-looking ones. Sexual orientation in terms of whether a man likes women or not is typically as clear as air.

Men are much worse on all of the stuff and notoriously cannot tell a gay man from a straight man. Straight men have insane ideas of what it means to straight, and if you don’t fit into that bullshit, you’re gay, period.

But a lot of straight men are not morons, and I have always gotten along even with really macho guys. I used to work working class jobs at factories, plants, construction, security guard, janitorial, dishwashing, taxi driver, and a lot of macho guys often seem to accept on some level. It took me a long time to figure out that what they accept in me is that I am doing the stereotypical masculine or macho thing.

You could almost write a book on what that means, but it is a whole set behaviors, attitudes and emotions that simply shows you are “acting like a man.” Guys who don’t act that way are pussies, wimps, fags, etc.

And most gay men do not really act this way. It’s very rare for a gay man to act very masculine or macho. I’ve only seen one case in my whole life. So-called “straight-acting” gay men are only called that because they are not overtly effeminate. However, even these men are typically rather soft and metrosexual. However, the behavior range of straight-acting metrosexual gays does indeed overlap with a lot of the rather soft metrosexual straight men you see especially in large urban areas so there can be quite a bit of straight man/gay man overlap at that end of the range.

I remember this one stupid girlfriend said, “You don’t act like much of a man. I could see why other men would want to “test” you.” Apparently this is shit-testing?

Well that’s not really true! Even really macho guys often accept me because they are nonretarded enough to see the macho in any guy who has that in him. What’s weird is the most masculine guys can see the masculine in a man a lot better than the less masculine guys, who are rather of retarded about picking up on masculinity.I am not sure why that is but probably very masculine men are very aware of, invested in and tuned in to masculinity, so it’s simply something that they have their radar tuned into. Less masculine men don’t act very masculine, don’t think much of it and are not very interested in it when they are not outright turned off by it. Hence they don’t understand it very well and they can’t really pick up on it in others. The more you engage in a behavior, the more you see it in others. The less you you engage in a behavior, the more tune-deaf you are when you see it in others.

I even used to get along well with some motorcycle gang members! And for years I lived as a surf bum and ski bum. Surfers are notoriously macho and homophobic. It’s a pretty hardass culture. Skiers were usually badass and homophobic too. I saw few if any gay men on the waves or the slopes. I am not sure they are into “macho” sports.

Even motorcycle gang members sort of accepted me on some weird level. A lot of those macho guys see that macho part of me, and a light of recognition goes on and their attitude is, “Ok dude.” They shake my hand, and it’s like I am accepted and “part of the club.” You get accepted into Macho Club or something along those lines. You really have to act masculine for those guys to accept you.

Hardcore masculinity is a big deal for these men. They have invested a tremendous amount of psychic and psychological energy in this role, and I do not think it’s importance to them can be overestimated. Hypermasculinity is essential to their very mode and style of existence. It’s part of their being on an almost spiritual level, and it is a great big deal for them. It’s not a game.

But then they see that other feminine thing going on in me and their attitude is, “WTF. This guy doesn’t make sense.” I hear that all the time – “I don’t make sense,” and people have no idea what to make of me. I also hear, “You’re too sexy to be straight,” a lot, but I am not sure what it means.

The only guys who call me faggot and try to start fights with me are just thugs or bullies. A lot of times they are even criminals, like gang members.

Gay men probably understand masculinity better than any other humans. I know that sounds insane, but some of these guys have got it down! It’s pretty pitiful when gay men understand masculinity more than straight men or straight women.

Straight women do not have the slightest idea what masculinity means or what it is. They often accuse masculine men of being unmasculine. When it comes to understanding masculinity, all women are retards. This probably goes back to what I was discussing earlier about how macho men can easily see masculinity in others while less masculine men seem to be tone-deaf and retarded about it. Women are very unmasculine, so it makes sense that if they don’t play the game, they can’t tell when others are playing it either. Maybe in order to see something in another, you need to do it yourself.

It seems like as women get older, they can figure it out a lot better though and many are no longer retarded about this subject.

Older women can also identify which men are gay and which are not a lot better, sometimes even better than I can. They seem to “get it.”

I think older women have been around men for so long that they finally start figuring a lot of things out about us like masculinity, but it might take until age 50 to do that. I had no idea men were so hard to understand.

The accumulated knowledge of masculinity that women gain with age is often intuitive stuff.

I had one girlfriend who laughed very hard and said, “Oh, I know you’re not gay! For one thing, you always talk about eating pussy. No gay man would ever talk about eating pussy that much. They wouldn’t talk about it at all.”

She’s right. Gay men sometimes fuck women, but they are not keen on eating pussy. A lot of them say the idea of it makes them want to vomit. I’ve been around a lot of gay men in my life, but I’ve never heard of one talking about fucking women, and for sure they don’t talk about eating pussy.

My best friend used to be a hair stylist and while he is straight, a lot of those men are gay. We used to hang out in Hollywood, and sometimes we would be at someone’s house and it would be me, him and some gay hair stylists. My friend and I used to tease and torment these gay men by talking about eating pussy in gruesome detail.

“Yeah, you know, that nice, juicy, red pussy…Yum yum! So good!” We would put our hands in front of our faces thumbs turned outwards like parting a flower in front of our lips. The gay men would flip out!

“Oh shut up!”

“Gross!”

“Ewwwwwww!”

“You’re gonna make me sick!”

“I’m gonna vomit! Ew shut up!”

They would get very angry and usually threaten to throw us out of the house if we didn’t quit talking about that.

It was a barrel of ticks!

But it shows you what gay men think of cunnilingus – not a whole lot!

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Rape or Not Rape?

This is ridiculous. The description of what happened, along with the link to MensRights on Reddit, is below. Question is, rape or not rape. I say not rape. This silly woman was asking for this. You are into “knife play?” What are you, insane? When you are a woman who is into knife play, exactly what sort of males do you figure are going to like to engage in knife play with women? You got it. Maniacs. Guys who like to fantasize about raping women. About torturing women. About kidnapping women. About killing women. Who else would be into such a thing?

She also likes to be choked? What a dumb bitch. Any woman who likes to be choked is out of her head. And guys who like to choke women are assholes. What sort of a guy likes to choke women? Easy. A guy who likes to fantasize about being a serial killer? A guy who dreams about being Ted Bundy because that’s his hero. A maniac.

Sure, this guy violated all of the “rules” of this insane community, but so what? I know a thing or two about this crazy community. Let me tell you something. Rapes, quite similar to this or probably much worse, happen all the time. I mean real rapes. Real rapes and quasi-rapes like below. The BD/SM community is rapey as all get out. In fact, at many BD/SM conferences, a lot of the speakers say there is no such thing as rape in BD/SM. As long as you are into torture sex, there is no such thing as rape.

Sure, these people have all sorts of crazy “rules,” but given the sociopathic men are who attracted to this sort of thing, who thinks anyone is going to follow them? And yes, many of the male sadists in this community are sociopaths. The BD/SM community is swarming with sociopathic men. This is like a candy store for them. And even if they are not sociopathic, just what sort of man do you think a sadist is? A sadist is a guy who gets off on hurting other people. What sort of an asshole gets off on that? A male heterosexual sadist is a guy who loves to hurt women. That’s the definition of what he is.

So all these lunatic women hooking up with these guys are looking to have sex and get into relationships with guys who like to hurt women. What exactly do they expect is going to happen when you start messing around with guys who like to hurt women? Why would any sane woman have anything to do with some maniac who likes to hurt women in the first place? These women are pretty much asking for it.

Even on porn sites like Kink.com, my understanding is that rapes happen all the time on the set. That’s not uncommon at all for BD/SM porn. A lot of rapes happen on the set of those sort of shoots.

The thing is, you are supposed to have safe words. You are supposed to say no. This ditzy bitch never once said no. In the world of BD/SM, that means the guy can carry on as long as he likes. Actually, in that crazy world, a lot of guys won’t even stop if you say no and safe words are routinely violated, so even saying no won’t be enough.

One more thing, male sexual sadists typically do not limit themselves to the bedroom. It’s not like he’s the nicest guy in the world, but he just likes to innocently pretend he’s Ted Bundy in the bedroom, but it’s all in good fun. It doesn’t work that way. Guys like to pretend they’re serial killers because they are basically maniacs who happen to be able to control themselves. I figure for every one maniac running around killing women, there’s probably 100 men who dream of it but have enough controls to not do it for a variety of reasons.

Male sexual sadists like to hurt women. And typically not just in bed. They tend to be pretty damn mean and cruel outside of bed. And many to most of the folks into this sort of thing don’t just keep it to the bedroom. Most are into 24/7 Dom/Sub relationships where is the Dominant or Master who treats her like shit 100% of the time and she is the Submissive, Sub or Slave who enjoys being treated like shit all the time because it’s fun and she’s nuts in the head.

It’s not uncommon at all for male sexual sadists who are active in the BD/SM community to “expand their interests” and graduate to abducting, raping, torturing and even killing women. Many men arrested for these crimes have a history of being active in that community or if not, this the type of sex they like to have with wives and girlfriends. So if your male boyfriend or husband likes to pretend to be a maniac in bed, I would consider that a major warning sign. The gay community has an extremely high rate of sexual sadism (37% of gay men are heavy into sexual sadism or sexual masochism). One theory of why there are so many gay serial killers (gays are 3% of the population and 35% of the serial killers) is because there is so much sexual sadism in the community.

That said, this guy is a complete asshole. Obviously. But guess what male sexual sadists are? They’re assholes! They’re supposed to be assholes! That’s what the whole kink is all about.

I say this is not rape. She never said no. If she doesn’t say no, there’s generally no rape unless you have your hands around her neck so she can’t talk. As far as non BD/SM, she probably needs to say no or indicate no in some other way.

Personally, I like it a bit rough and I always say to the women I have sex with, “If I ever do or say anything you don’t like, let me know, ok, and I will stop.” And with a lot of sex acts like spanking, I get her permission before I do it (Do you want me to spank you? Don’t you want me to do it harder?). I mean you really need to get her permission for everything.

If she says no, I quit doing it. I don’t go ahead and do it anyway. I don’t know what it would be like if she didn’t say no but she indicated that she wasn’t consenting because I don’t think that has ever happened to me. Every time I have sex with a woman, it’s because she wants to do it. Sometimes, I will try to do something and she will so, “No,” or “Don’t,” so I just don’t do it. Use common sense and you won’t have any problems.

Here.

Kinky woman invites kinky man over, and they have kinky sex.She declares it “RAPE”,posting her version of the event on FetLife (a Facebook for kinky people). And even though it’s pretty clear from her own description that it WASN’T rape,she gets so many “upvotes”,that it reaches their front page! (self.MensRights)

submitted 1 day ago by QUITcryingRAPE

[I’ve redacted her Fetlife S/name. But her post may still be on their front page, which they call “Kinky and Popular”, or K&P for short. My comments are in brackets.]

[Title] You stole my ability to consent

This is one of the hardest things I have ever written. I keep starting it and then deleting it. I have no idea if it will even make sense.

I am a nurse, I am the person who helps other people, I am not a victim. I honestly never imagined something like this would happen to me. I am having a lot of trouble coming to terms with what happened, I keep trying to tell myself maybe I am overreacting and what happened wasn’t the R word. Then another side of my brain kicks in and I blame myself, I allowed myself to be in that position, I didn’t stop it, I didn’t say no.

[This is worth emphasizing. She DIDN’T stop it, and she DIDN’T say “no”]

But in the back of my mind I know it was wrong and that what happened should never have happened.

So I guess I should start from the beginning…

So we talked on Fet [short for FetLife] for a few months about a whole variety of things. You seemed like a nice person. I was in a relationship at the time so I didn’t think any more of it.

Then after my relationship ended we started talking again. It moved to texting. We talked about different kinks. We both discussed how we were into knife play. I voiced that though I was into it I would never ever do it with someone I did not know or trust completely. It had taken me 2 years to even contemplate knife play with my ex. I have been traumatized by a knife in the past and if someone I did not trust were to use one on me it would not end well. You seemed to get that. We discussed choking, how I love it, how you like doing it. You often mentioned meeting up. Something always made me hesitate.

Then a few days ago you started messaging me and we talked on the phone. The day before my birthday you messaged me and we found we both had the day off. You suggested coming over to hang out, obviously there was flirting and the undertone of sex. I was hesitant, but for some reason I said yes. I thought well what is the worst that could happen? We hang out, maybe we don’t like each other and he leaves, maybe we have sex. Well I can handle that.

I have no idea if this is exactly what happened that day, everything is a bit like a puzzle that has been pulled apart. But this is what I remember.

So you arrived. We went to the lounge room and sat on the couch. A couple of words were exchanged. Then suddenly your hands were on my throat and you were choking me. Hard. Repeatedly. I was feeling incredibly scared and uneasy at this point. Where was the talking about limits, about consent, about what we wanted to happen. But I couldn’t say this, I could barely breathe, I was panicking. I was deep in the wilderness of sub space where I will not fight, I will not speak, I am pliable, even though my subconscious is screaming at me to run.

You grabbed me by the hair and pulled me up off the couch. You pushed me in front of you into the bedroom. You pushed me onto my stomach on the bed and pulled my cardigan up over my face so that I couldn’t see and my hands were pinned in front of me. You sat over me and put your arms around my throat in a headlock. I couldn’t breathe. I couldn’t move. I knew at this point I was in trouble, but still I didn’t stop anything.

After this you used a variety of implements on me, paddle, flogger, your hand, then suddenly I felt the prick of a knife on the back of my legs. I froze. I entered a zone of terror. When presented with a knife, I am immediately immobilized. I lay there, immobile, panicking, knowing I wanted it to stop but I didn’t say the words. I didn’t say stop. [Again, this seems pretty important. We haven’t heard his side, and for all we know, he thinks things are going swimmingly well.]

You grabbed me by the hair and flipped me onto my back. You pulled me to the side of the bed so my head hung over the edge. You shoved your cock into my mouth and repeatedly made me gag on it. You slapped my face. You shoved your fingers down my throat. You made me say thank you. [Not clear on how he made her say thank you, but it is clear that she can, in fact, speak words.]

You again flipped me onto my stomach and bound my hands behind me with tape. You flogged my back. You then pushed yourself inside me. You pushed a toy into my ass. I screamed. You pulled out. You put the toy inside me. You put yourself in my ass. You fucked me hard, over and over again, I screamed, my body took over and I came. [In the absence of being told otherwise, an orgasm on her part probably sent him what he thought was a clear message.] You continued to fuck me, I remember screaming and trying to pull away.

Suddenly you pulled out moved up towards my face grabbed me by the hair and then blew all over my face. Then you pushed my face into the bed. You got up and I thought it was over. Suddenly I felt the knife on my back.

I remember your words. “Don’t think I am finished with you yet, assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups”. I felt the knife tracing a path up and down my back. Then felt you lay it to rest between by shoulder blades. I heard you moving around getting dressed. I was holding back tears. You said “now I’m finished” and “How do you feel?”. I replied “I don’t know”. I just wanted it to end. You said you could come back tomorrow. Then you walked out of the room and left.

I lay on the bed, naked, shaking, unable to contemplate what just happened. I heard my phone beep. I picked it up and a friend had messaged me. I called them sobbing hysterically, unable to explain. I have no idea how long we were on the phone for. I remember him telling me to breathe, not to think, to just focus on the breathing.

Slowly, so very slowly the sobs began to lessen. Then all I could see were the toys strewn everywhere, the marks on the bed, the wetness all over me. I felt dirty, violated. I remember telling him I had to shower, I had to get clean. I hung up, I threw my blanket in the washing machine and cleared all the toys up. I got into the shower and scrubbed myself raw.

I called my friend after the shower. He didn’t know what to say. He suggested I talk to someone else who was more experienced in the scene. I messaged someone on my Fet friends list that I thought may be able to help. He immediately told me to call his partner. I did. These wonderful people ended up coming over. I was just a stranger from Fet, but they came because they knew I needed it. This re-established my faith in humanity that there are decent people in this world.

There followed a night of uber sweet tea, hugs, amazing advice and reassurance and then a blur of police and doctors and tests as the clock ticked over into my 27th year on this earth. I came home to an empty house, covered in forensic dust with multiple items missing. I felt terrified that you may come back. That fear still hasn’t gone away. I wish you didn’t know where I lived

I still keep telling myself that maybe this is my fault. I should have said no, I should have stopped it. I shouldn’t have invited him over. This feeling has not been helped by a police officer telling me that I was on a kink site and what did I expect would happen. That the toys belonged to me, so what did I think would happen. I feel like I can’t take it further because my sexual history will be brought into it and I will be judged. I feel ashamed because I came.

But I have slowly come to realize that I was unable to say no. [So the man should be a mind-reader?] From the point you choked me, to you bringing out the knife, I was unable to say no. [So the man should go to prison because of your inability to use words properly?] I was frozen by fear and I was trapped in subspace.

I could no more have stopped you than I could have jumped into outer space. [Hmmm. Saying the word “stop”, or jumping into outer space. Yup, both equally unfathomable tasks.] You never asked me my limits or what I wanted to happen, you never checked in with me, you knew I would not use knives with you, but you used them anyway, you put things inside me without permission, you left at the end with no after care. [So, let me get this straight. A HUG would have suddenly turned this “rape” into the start of a beautiful relationship?]

In doing all these things you STOLE my ability to consent. You RAPED me. You have changed me in ways I can’t even explain. [Allow me to explain. It’s called growing up, and learning that as an adult, you are sometimes called upon to use your words, rather than blaming others for not knowing what you want and don’t want.]

So I guess I just needed to verbalize how I was feeling/thinking. I hope this person never again does this to someone. I hope I will get through it in time, or I will get better at not thinking about it. For now you have taken a great many things away from me.

I also want to say a big thank you to the amazing people who went above and beyond over the last couple of days to provide love and support and advice.

Update 1: Thank you for all the love and support from everyone reading this post. I honestly never expected it and it has quite overwhelmed me. You have all helped me more than I can say

Update 2: To all those concerned yes I will be going to counseling and I have had/will have the necessary tests done.

Update 3: The police officer who was such an ass was a female, not that gender should be relevant. I did report it, however they seemed to think that I was misinterpreting what she said. I really wish that there was some sort of education for officers these days regarding BDSM and consent. It might make more people willing to speak up if they didn’t fear facing judgement and ignorance.

[Yeah, thankfully, the cops used some common sense for once, and a man who may well have been innocent, did not have to be arrested and go to jail because a woman forgot how to tell him to “STOP”, and decides, after-the-fact, that she had been raped. Now, the fact that one woman can mistake this unfortunate series of events for a horrible sex crime is hardly newsworthy.]

[But the fact that her story gets enough “likes” to propel it to the front page of a major website, and an endless list of comments below it, all of them supportive, in a community that supposedly understands and accepts the rules of kinky sex, which SHE clearly violated, is proof-positive that we are NOT living in a “Rape Culture”, but in fact, we are living in whatever the polar opposite of “Rape Culture” would be.]

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Statement on Misogyny

In case you were wondering, Beast Ganon’s misogyny resonates about as much with me as it does with his worst detractors. Contrary to popular lie, I am not a misogynist at all. I am just a realist. I see both men and women for what they are, good and bad. What I really can’t stand are men. If I had my way, I would just be around females all day. Yes woman drive you nutty, but usually only when you are in a relationship with them. Sex and love seem to make females nuts. As long as you are not fucking them, psychologically healthy females can be remarkably stable and you can have a great time with them.

I have had a blast with women and girls in my life. I grew up with my girl cousins, and they taught me all about females. It feels like I am part female, honestly. There is a male side of me that is like the most macho guy that ever lived, and then there is this other side that is like a woman. That’s why I can along with females so well. To me, being around women, socializing with them or doing anything with them for that matter is like being with my twin.

My beef is with the feminuts, not women in general.

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Gender Differences in the Expression of Romantic Love

I think that you are not a bad guy Mr. Lindsay, but you offered nothing to these “boring” thing, because you claim to be a womanizer. Women felt insecure and not loved with you. So they became psycho.

I was mad crazy wild in love with them, and they were nuts in love with me too. Women often fall crazy in love with me. Happens all the time. But then they fall out of love too, and they turn into the worst hater enemies you have ever seen. I think love and hate are very close.

Often even though I am head over heels in love with some woman, she will say, “You don’t really love me at all,” or “You don’t care,” or “I wonder if you even like me,” or “You have no true empathy for any other human being.” I don’t understand any of this because to me I am nuts in love with them, and they see it as I don’t care, I don’t love them, or I have no empathy for them or anyone else.

I think maybe men and women show their love in different ways. There is an old story about some woman who says to her husband of many years, “You don’t even love me anymore, do you? It seems like you don’t love me at all!” The man looks up from his book and says, “Well, I’m still here, aren’t I?” To him, showing his love means just merely sticking around! His attitude is that if he didn’t love her, he would just take off. So the fact that he stays with her shows he loves her.

And even if I’m as crazy in love with her as any man has ever been about any woman, I would still try to cheat on her. I would not want her to find out about the other woman though because that would hurt her. And I like to have open relationships even when I am mad in love.

Once I get a girlfriend, my mind says, “Cool! I have a woman! Now I need to get another one!” And if I get two girlfriends, my mind goes crazy and says, “Yay! You have two girlfriends! Now you need to get three!” I have no idea why my mind works like this. Maybe I am greedy.

I could be monogamous, but only be default. That is, say I was not lucky at cheating on her for 5 years, then I could be monogamous for 5 years. This could easily happen because I don’t try very hard to cheat when I have a girlfriend.

To me the fact that I am cheating on her doesn’t mean I don’t love her. It seems like I can love a woman and still cheat on her because cheating is just what I do. My mother shakes her head. She thinks I am incorrigible and hopeless when it comes to this sort of thing. I think maybe I am a “woman addict.”

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Robert Stark Interviews Roger Devlin about Sexual Utopia in Power

Here.

This is actually excellent. This is one of brightest, wisest, sanest and most likable people Stark has ever had on here. I highly encourage you to listen to this. It’s mostly about feminism, gender and politics of sex.

Robert Stark talks to Roger Devlin about his book Sexual Utopia in Power: The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization.  F. Roger Devlin, Ph.D. is an independent scholar. He is the author of Alexandre Kojève and the Outcome of Modern Thought (Lanham, Maryland: University Press of America, 2004) and many essays and reviews in such publications as The Occidental Quarterly, American Renaissance, Counter-Currents/North American New Right, VDare, Modern Age, The Social Contract, Alternative Right, and The Last Ditch. A bibliography of his work is available online at http://devliniana.wordpress.com/.

Topics include:

His original essay Sexual Utopia in Power
The origins, motives, and outcomes of the sexual revolution
Back to Africa: Sexual Atavism in the Modern West
How mainstream social conservatives have failed to diagnose the problems and offer solutions
How economic changes have affected marriage and relationships between the sexes
How the sexual revolution has led to less sex for the masses and more for a few
Why many men are dropping out of society
The question of female masochism
Article about girls in Norway submitting to Pakistani immigrants who bully Norwegian boys
Why change will not come through political reform but rather by creating subcultures

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It’s Not Possible to Molest a Teenage Girl

Repost from recent days. They are tearing this one apart on Blue Pill too.

Male feminists are such fags.

And female feminists…well…I am not sure if they are the enemy so much as that they are just stupid, and like most women nowadays, they just don’t get it.

Feminism is like all the rest of Identity Politics – Gay Identity Politics, antiracism, the trans movement, the Pro-ethnicity movements and all the other various idiocies – in that almost every single thing they say is not even true. Apparently feminists live in a fantasy world just like antiracists where all of the things we intuitively know via common sense and a lifetime of simple observational learning are actually somehow not even true.

The motto of the PC crowd should be, “Everything you know is wrong!” So feminists, like the antiracists and the rest of the boneheads, simply believe an endless series of lies, and almost everything they say is wrong. I am not sure whether I should hate people like that or just feel sorry for them like you feel sorry for actual retards.

It’s a known fact that modern women are completely nuts on the subject of men and teenage girls. You can’t even say they’re nice to look at. You can’t even say how you can see some guy wanting to fuck one of them. You can’t say how you think it’s normal to jerk off and fantasize about them. All of this, incredibly enough, is “pedophilia” despite that fact that 100% of behavioral scientists say that adult men being turned on by teenage girls or even fucking them isn’t “pedophilia,” and in fact it’s not any sort of mental illness, and indeed, beyond that, it’s not even abnormal.

Men screwing teenage girls is normal. Humans have been doing this for as long as there are humans. It is completely normal in many societies such as African tribes to this very day. In cultures where this is normal, not a single teenage girl in the history of man has been psychologically damaged by having sex with a man any more than any grown woman has been damaged by having sex with a man.

There’s absolutely no evidence whatsoever that it harms the girl other than everyone screaming about how damaged she got and running her around to idiot feminist therapists who endlessly drum it into her little head about how damaged she is. Yes, you freak out and tell a human that what just happened to them is awful and damaging, and a lot of humans will react by deciding that they event was traumatizing.

The problem with screwing teenage girls is that society has decided that it  simply does not approve of such things. Because society has decided it doesn’t like it due to a feminist-led mass hysteria equating normative teenage sexuality with pedophilia, the penalties for messing around with teenage girls have gone berserk.

You would think an 18 year old boy could fuck a 15 year old girl easily, but oh no, feminist shitheads have decided that is “pedophilia.” The laws are so lunatic and evil now that I would advise any grown man over 18 to exercise extreme caution in this area. And once you get to 25 or so, don’t even think about it. 25-30 year old men are going down on “child molestation” charges for fucking girls aged 17 years and 10 months. That’s right. Two months shy of legal, and it’s “pedophilia.”

Your grandma was right after all.

I get the distinct impression from talking to my parents that their generation thought, “Well, yes, men will fuck teenage girls if you give them the opportunity.” I am not sure if they thought it was the greatest thing since Kleenex, but they seemed to think it was simply part of normal human behavior. And I believe my mother pointed out that a lot of teenage girls want to screw men and will even try to seduce them.

Identity Politics says everything you learned from your parents and grandparents, the obvious wisdom of ages which was then born out in life by you via common sense and simple observation, is wrong. Everything you grandma told you is wrong. Bull-shit.

Subliminal Star writes:

Robert? What I found so disturbing about that show To Catch A Predator is that quite a few of the men who were lured into these sting operations came out and admitted that they were still virgins. They could have been lying, but, then again, they were likely telling the truth. When they get to prison, I imagine that word gets around the inmate population that these men have never been touched.

Then these men end up having their first sexual experience in the form of a violent gang rape against them by a bunch of sodomite goons. I would never wish something like that on even my worst enemy. I am glad that To Catch A Predator was taken off the air. Unfortunately, there are other fanatics out there in the world like Chris Hansen and Perverted Justice who take their obsessions even further to the point that innocent people get hurt

…Yeah, but if that “offender” wishes to support the younger person for the rest of her life as I’ve seen in so many cases in which a 22-year-old man marries his pregnant 14-year-old girlfriend, locking him up and branding him a sex offender after he gets out of prison isn’t going to improve his chances of finding employment to make such support possible, to say the least.

Good point. 14 and 15 year old girls are not children. You can only groom and molest children. You can’t groom and molest people who aren’t children, although that is probably coming soon. I assume this is where the radfem nutcases are going next – soon they will accuse men of grooming and molesting full-grown women, which is in line with Feminist Theory which essentially states that females never grow up and remain children until their dying day.

Since it is not possible to groom and molest someone who is not a child, it is not possible to groom and molest a 14 or 15 year old girl. Yes, you can fuck them and do all sorts of sexual things with them, as you can any woman, but it’s called fucking, not molesting. But you can’t molest them anymore than you can molest a 30 year old woman.

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Guidelines for Men Dealing with Teenage Girls Under 18 in an Insane Society

Men aged 18-19: Exercise extreme caution with teenage teenage girls under 16.*

Men aged 20-24: Exercise extreme caution with teenage girls under 17.*

Men aged 25 and up: Exercise extreme caution with all underage teenage girls period.*

All men: Do not receive nudes from teenage girls under 18. Yes, they like to send them out to men. How do I know? Oh gosh, I don’t know! If an underage teenage girl sends you a nude, delete it because it can be traced back to you. You can ask for a pic from a teenage girl under 18 if you are friendly with her. But I would say, “No nudes please.”

Do not cybersex with teenage girls under 18. There was a time when 10-15 years ago when teenage girls and men in large numbers were doing this in chatrooms, especially Yahoo chat. There were quite a few chat rooms set up exclusively for this purpose, and they were full of underage teenage girls. How do I know? Oh I don’t know! Anyway you would think talk would be pretty harmless, but I believe men are now going down for “talking dirty to teenage girls on the Internet.” Not fucking them. Not arranging to meet them. Talking to them. Yep, it’s now illegal for a man to talk to a teenage girl. There are now actual laws that specifically make that illegal, if you can believe that.

Same applies to texting. Do not engage in sexting with teenage girls under 18. You would wonder what insane law this would fall under, but they are actually making laws now that you can’t talk dirty via texting to teenage girls. Men are actually going down on this lunatic bullshit. You can text them about other things. I suppose you can even talk about sex, but exercise caution, talk about it in a clinical way only, and don’t talk dirty to them.

Do not send your own nudes to teenage girls under 18. Just don’t. Do girls ask men for nudes? Damn right they do. Doesn’t mean you have to send them to them.

Do not get naked on cam for girls under 18. Yes, underage teenage girls in chatrooms, if you cam with them, will try to get you out of your clothes right away. “But I’ve never seen a dick before!” Don’t do it no matter how hard they plead, and yes they do plead.

Do not send porn pics or movies to teenage girls under 18. Do they request porn from men? You better believe they do. Don’t send it.

I suppose you can email, text, chat and cam with underage teenage girls on the Net. The morons haven’t met this illegal yet. I have underage teenage girl strangers emailing me out of the blue to this very day, believe it or not. But I would be careful what you say to them, and don’t talk dirty.

Apparently you can talk to underage teenage girls in meatspace. You might even be able to make friends with them. But in this climate, people might react badly even to that. A man in California was arrested for “grooming” for talking to two 15 year old girls in a pet shop for 15 minutes. I haven’t the faintest idea what they were talking about. The law is “annoying or molesting a child” and it means, well, whatever cops want it to mean! If you’re going to talk to them, I would be careful what you talk to them about, and I wouldn’t talk dirty to them. You can probably talk about sex because girls that age always want to talk about that anyway, but I would be careful what you say when you do, and only talk about it in a clinical way.

If you have any nude or porn pics or movies of underage teenage girls on your drive, you might want to think about what to do with them. Any that can be traced back to you, get rid of them. If they can’t be traced back to you, it’s probably going to be hard proving that that girl in that movie or pic isn’t at least 18, but they might try anyway. I would not go out of your way collecting such pics and movies.. Personally, I don’t collect them at all.

*If someone can show me that men aged 18-19 are going down for screwing 16-17 year old girls, I’m all ears.

*I would also like to know if men aged 20-24 are going down for screwing 17 year old girls.

*If you have any anecdotes or news stories proving the above, let me know.

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Cuckolding and Shit Testing

EPGAH writes:

“…cuckold me right in front of my face, with a Black man at that!”

Isn’t that a universal fantasy of women and apparently beta males?

I am not into that cuckolding crap. That is so pathetic, wimpy, beta, submissive and masochistic I cannot put it into words.

I have no idea if I am a Beta or not. I hope I don’t act like one.

Here is how it went down:

Her: (nicely) “Look, you have to leave, ok?”
Me: “No problem.”
Her: “I am going out this weekend.”
Me: “Ok fine.”
Her: “I have a date!”
Me: “LOL, so?” (shrugs shoulders, acts like I could care less)
Her: (getting angrier because she is trying to rouse me and it’s not having an effect) “With a Black man!”
Me: “LOL, great” (I laugh right in her face defiantly).
Her: (even angrier now because I am laughing in her face) I have a date with a Black man! (louder for emphasis).
Me: LOL (I laugh in her face even harder) Well, have fun!
Her: Disgusted and frustrated because she couldn’t make me mad, stalks away.
Me: I am sitting here thinking, “WTF. This crazy bitch is trying to get me to murder her! Cuckolding a man defiantly right in front of his face. Not even trying to hide it, instead flaunting it for maximum humiliation. A lot of men will kill over stuff like that! This crazy bitch is trying to get murdered. What an idiot!”

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How Do You Control a Psychobitch?

Ben Steigmann writes:

“Controlling a woman (which is mandatory) involves a lot more than being a porn stud in bed.”

What are your suggestions?

It seems like nothing works when you are dealing with an abusive bitch or a psychobitch. I have tried everything on Earth and nothing calms them down. I tried responding to them with aggression, which I never used to do before. It works well in a sense but it also makes them way more aggressive and they start insulting me horribly, threatening me, and attacking me physically, spitting on me or hitting me.

I’ve had bitches who would attack me 500-1,000 times a day. I tried everything to deal with the abuse:

Silent treatment.
Saying “mm hmm” or “ok” after every attack.
Agreeing with the insults.
Saying “thank you” to every attack.

Fighting back:

“Shut up!”,
“Shut up bitch!”,
“Shut up cunt!”
“Shut up you fucking cunt!”
“Shut up you fucking bitch!”
Shut up you worthless cunt!”

I often said really mean and menacing too. Totally worthless. No matter how hard you fight back, it doesn’t stop it at all and actually they usually just escalate.

As far as I am concerned, nothing works. I am up for any suggestions on how to deal with abusive women or psychobitches. Most people will say, “Well the reason she is a psychobitch is because of your behavior.” Then they will list something you are doing to set her off. The thing is, I often try to modify my behavior even to the point where I am an actor playing completely different roles in a movie. I’ve never found any behavior that seems to stop abusive bitches. People will say, “Well you need to man up. She is a bitch because you thinks you are Beta/Omega/a pussy/a wimp, etc.” Ok well then I can go into hypermasculine mode because that’s one the roles that I play. It doesn’t seem to stop the abuse.

I will say though that after I started finally fighting back against women with insults like the above, women have fallen wilder and more crazy in love with me than ever in my life. A few them were even trying really hard to marry me. Sure, fighting back viciously makes them escalate like nuts, but it also seems to make them totally crazy in love with you via some means I do not understand.

I think maybe it shows you are not pussy-whipped. Once you start insulting a woman like that, it shows that you are not whipped. It shows that you don’t care whether she goes or stays. You’re not sticking around for sex. It’s a statement of extreme confidence and power. Most men are too whipped to say things like that to women because they are afraid she will either stay and cut off the sex or leave. In either case, the sex goes. Most men won’t fight women because they fear being cut off from the sex supply.

It also helps to let women know that they can be replaced at any time. If they think they are the only woman you can get and you can’t get another woman, they get very bold and can act very bad. They figure you will put up with anything because you can’t get anyone else. It’s also nice to have another woman in the wings or even another girlfriend.

When a woman starts acting bad, threaten to replace her with the woman in the wings or threaten to leave her for the other girlfriend. Say, “Why do you treat me like that? Woman X (your other girlfriend and her deadly rival) never does that to me. She’s always real nice. She treats me way better than you do.” It’s pretty evil to play one woman against the other, but believe it or not, women are very competitive, and if they know if you have another woman, they will usually try to be a better girlfriend than she is.

I have had one girlfriend ask me what the other one is like in bed. Then she would try to outcompete the other girlfriend in bed by being kinkier or wilder or whatever. Once again, you can play them off each other to try to get them to outkink each other. Pretty soon, you’re living in a porno movie.It’s pretty evil, but it works. Women will actually try to outfuck rival women. I’ve dealt with this a number of times.

If anyone has any ideas about how to deal with abusive bitches to stop their abuse or if anyone knows any male behaviors to play to make them less psychobitch, let’s hear it in the comments. I am all ears. Let’s talk psychobitches!

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“If You Give a Woman Lots of Sex, Everything Will Be Fine”

EPGAH writes:

There is also the “Ahegao Syndrome” theory that women stop nagging so much if fucked more.

Not really, I have had a number of girlfriends who I fucked and had sex with constantly. I mean like hours a day spaced throughout the day and night. This is pretty much they way I like to fuck, and you would be amazed at how many women are total nymphos and want to fuck all the time too. They just need to have the nympho brought out of them. I think there is a little nympho hiding out in most women somewhere whether they are aware of it or not.

I even had girlfriends who I was orgasm-rationing. I was rationing them to 3-4 orgasms per day. I don’t think it really worked. There was one I was rationing on 3-4 orgasms/day. She was an abusive bitch ~50% of the time and she worshiped me like a God the other half the time. But maybe if I didn’t fuck her all the time she would have been a 24-7 bitch.

This whole idea that all you have to do is dick a woman like a porn star all the time and everything will be peachy keen is just not true. I had a girlfriend who I fucked and had sex with 4-6 hours a day through the day and night. She was contemptuous of my masculinity, told me “You’re not much of a man,” and tried to cuckold me right in front of my face, with a Black man at that!

If she has contempt for you as a man on some basic level, there is honestly no way to fuck your way out of that situation, and there’s a lot more to masculinity than being a sexual workhorse.

Controlling a woman (which is mandatory) involves a lot more than being a porn stud in bed.

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