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PUA/Game: Competing with Other Men

I walk into a room full of men and women and there are no men in that room, ever. There’s just all the women, and me. That’s because I don’t compete with other men. I guess I think I’m better in a way. I mean not an arrogant feeling, more like I look around them and think, “Competition? What competition? You call that competition? I don’t think so.” Mostly I just don’t worry about them. And any guy who seems like he really has it going on? Well, he’s just a fellow stud, just like me. But he’s not better. I don’t often think other men are better than I am.

I never got into competing for females like most guys do because I despise competitive men, although most men are quite competitive. I always figured that I would not have to fight the other guys for the females. That feeling is rooted in insecurity. That man is thinking, “Wow, I am not as good as these other guys. These other guys are superior to me, and they are going to steal the chicks.” This leads to men AMOGing and fighting each other, etc. I am not into rivalry. I dropped out of the bullshit game ages ago and dropped out of society altogether. I am not a part of that bullshit.

I don’t feel like I will have to fight the other guys for the females because I just assume that the females, including the hot ones, will just go for me automatically anyway no matter how many other guys are around. The female interest in me is a given. I mean that’s not even up for grabs. Why would they pick all those other guys instead of me? How stupid. Women aren’t that dumb. Obviously they will go for me because it’s a proven fact that I am hot as Hell. Not only that, but I am King of the World. Why would women go for these other guys when the King of the World is in the room? See?

A lot of people hate someone who thinks like that, but at least I’m not competitive. And I generally do not come across as arrogant either.

I talk to another guy, and I do not have to AMOG him like all the other guys do. Anyway isn’t the AMOGing that all men do a bit arrogant? I am not thinking, “I am so much better than this idiot.” I am just thinking, “I am not worried about this guy as competition.”

If he’s Joe Cool then he’s just like me, and so what? And if he’s not who cares?

I am not thinking about where that guy stands in relation to the women in the room. I don’t care where he stands. That’s not an important question for me. Even if I see a guy with a bunch of women around him, I don’t get jealous of him. I just laugh and say, “Ha ha! Another guy just like me who gets all the chicks! Maybe I should go make friends with him. We are two of a kind.”

This mindset works very well for Inner Game, but it might be hard for a lot of men to work themselves into this way of thinking.


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The Intelligence of Hispanics

The Hispanic IQ is 90. I am sure you want to say that’s low, but the IQ of the average human is 89. So if you think 90 IQ people are stupid, then you have to think your average human on Earth is a complete idiot. And I suppose some might like to make that case.

Having lived around these people, the first thing I will say about them is they are not stupid at all. But even though they are not dumb, on the other hand, they are not real smart either. It’s a very average type of human, even on the low side of average. The main thing about them is their ignorance. Hispanics are frighteningly, terrifyingly ignorant. Why this is, I have no idea.

Around here your average Black person knows more about history, sociology, even psychology, and especially politics than the Hispanics do.  They Hispanics don’t know, and it seems like they don’t want to learn.

It is also interesting to note that the ignorance comes largely though not exclusively from Mexicans. A lot of them have told me that they only had 2-5 years of education. A 40 year old woman told me her kids only had 5 years of education. The second generation who are born here act worse than the immigrants, and they are just as ignorant, if not more. At least the Mexicans seem to have some desire to learn. The 2nd Generation doesn’t even want to learn anything. They are very happy with empty heads.

The Mesoamerican immigrants know a lot more about politics than the Mexicans do. In particular the ones who went through revolutions such as Nicaragua and El Salvador know quite a bit about politics.

One strange thing is that the people you meet from South America seem a lot smarter and especially less ignorant that the Mesoamericans. I’m not sure why that is, but the culture of Spain is still very prominent down there, and that culture revered learning, men of letters, etc. The women down there actually love intellectual men because it is a sign that you are upper class or have an upper class mindset.

They’re certainly intelligent enough to function and more or less run a metropolis. It will work so much better if there are a few Whites around to keep the lights on and whatnot. We have had a couple of towns around here that have gone 100% Hispanic, no Whites anymore, and it is not a good thing. It’s not even a decline. It’s more of a complete collapse.

Does this mean they are stupid? I’m not sure about that.

A better argument is that when the Whites all leave, and you have a city that’s 100% Hispanic, Mexico takes over. It just becomes another town in Mexico. Ever been to Mexico? If you have you will understand what I am talking about. If you want to know the particulars, there’s no money anymore, local government collapses, nothing works and there’s no money to fix stuff, gangs take over very badly, and in particular, some heavy-duty Mexican style corruption rears its head.

When Mexicans come to the US, which is fine by me, they really need to leave Mexico behind. Bringing Mexico with them doesn’t work.


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PUA/Game: “Staring” at Women

RL: Yeah. Now it’s sexual harassment for looking at them.

You just know these laws are going to be abused by stupid, emotional, vindictive, and evil-minded women, of which there are hundreds of millions.

Women are like Jews, Blacks, LGBTQZKPRBFXYZ, etc. Just another identity politics group.

Jason: So what is the difference between gawking and looking? And yeah, of course, there is a vindictive group of women out to harm men – unless, of course, they’re the ones they specifically like! For instance, if women are showing breast cleavage, then it’s to get attention – but not from retards and nerds – or maybe even blacks.

That’s why women are full of shit. You see why men hate women now? It’s because of crap like that. They walk showing full cleavage and then they get pissed at us for looking and try to cover themselves up. Well, you know what?

“If you don’t want men staring at your tits, quit walking around with your boobs hanging out!”

I told my Mom that and she laughed hard. But my Mom’s not really a feminist. She’s more of a real woman. Like I said, there’s real women and there’s feminists. We love the real women. The feminists can all jump in a lake of fire. Or maybe I will push them in.

You hit it on the head. She’s walking around with her tits hanging out so Chad can look at them. “Hey Chad! My tits are hanging out! Come look at them baby!” But then most of the rest of the Normies and especially the Omegas really have no right to look at her tits, even though they’re hanging out of her shirt! Because sexual attention from unattractive men is outrageous, and as a feminist, she wants to make it illegal! Most women think that unattractive men simply have no right to be obviously interested in or attracted to them at all.

And if you want to know one reason why so many men hate women, there it is. Even those of us who don’t hate women, well we hate that attitude of theirs for sure. Women can stick it. We don’t care what they think. We’re men for Chrissake! We do what we want? Why should we care what some silly woman thinks about anything?

You aren’t supposed to gawk or stare at them. It’s bad form and very bad Game. That said, I have gotten accused of it quite a bit. I must admit I am baffled when I am accused of staring because I try very hard not to do that. I think I was just looking at them. I do like to people look. I mean everyone does that, unless the feminists are going to make that illegal too. I told you females now get mad at me for even looking at them. I guess I’m not allowed to do that.

A blank, open, obvious, idiotic stare is pretty bad. But just looking at  someone isn’t. I told you about that time when I walked into the Roxy and every single woman in that place looked right at me. They’re staring, right? So what! I mean every time a chick has checked me out anywhere ever, of which there have been zillions of times, she was staring at me. But women hate em. Fuck these bitches. They get to stare at us all they want, but we can’t stare at them?

If a woman glares at you, you probably are staring too much. That would be one way to tell you are staring.

If you look at a female and she gives you a frightened look, quit looking at her. You are scaring her somehow or other. This even happens to me sometimes.

I try to look out of the corners of my eyes. I look at the whole scene so I am not looking directly at her, shift my eyes around all over the place, look over her head, look to the sides of her, try to be very unobtrusive about it by sort of hiding in the background, look away from them a lot, I have million tricks. It’s hard not to look at a beautiful female.

Especially because men don’t exist for me. I mean I walk into the room and it’s all the attractive females and me. Those are the only people in the room. If there’s one attractive female and 20 unattractive ones, then there’s only one female in the room. And the whole time I am in the room, if I have nothing better to do, I am going to be looking at her.  First of all because I can’t help it. It’s like I am sucked into her by some energy force that I cannot control. I usually look at them out of corners of my eyes and use all the other tricks, so they don’t usually get mad or even notice much.

If you are outside, that’s what sunglasses are for. Sunglasses were not created to protect our eyes from the sun. They were created so we men could look at women.


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Emmanuel Macron, Cuck of the Century


I knew this was going to happen. I happen to think that it should be legal to be an asshole. Obviously women want to make it illegal to be an asshole. Of course the law will only apply to men, women being the equality-minded magnanimous creatures that they are.

I have a feeling it is not going to stop there, and I worry I might get caught up in this latest form of Mass Psychosis.

I think there is a woman I know at a coffeeshop who might think I am stalking her or something. All I’ve done is look at her (Well, she’s a stone fox, how can you not  look at her?) and talked to her a few times, nothing sexual, not really any flirting either. I did get her email address. Emailed her once with some links, got no response, so stopped contact.

She just knows I am interested in her, and I guess that freaks the cunt out and pisses her off.

The other day I was making a very wide u-turn in a street where the U had to go a ways into another street on the curve. Well, I finish the U and get over to turn right in the opposite direction to complete the U. She was coming up the street and ended up right behind me. She’s right there behind me. I think I waved at her maybe. She sees me and throws the car into reverse and starts backing up really fast.

For a while I thought it was nothing, but now I am starting to get worried. Apparently because our cars were in close proximity, I must have been stalking this dumb bitch, right? Hell, I didn’t even know where she lived or that she lived in that area. I knew nothing about her. I had no idea she even had two kids or lived in the city and was not a commuter.

Of course I’m not stalking this dumb cunt. I am barely even talking to her because she’s such a bitch.

I am worried that I could get reported under this bullshit law.

One of the charges against Morgan Freeman was some dumb cunt who said when he was talking to her, he was looking at her tits. She had to tell him, “Hey, my eyes are up here.” This was sexual harassment because the bitch got her panties in a wad over it. This is so stupid. Every straight man on Earth does this routinely or has done it in the past. Why do you think, “Um, my eyes are up here?” is such a popular joke.

Yeah. Now it’s sexual harassment for looking at them.

You just know these laws are going to be abused by stupid, emotional, vindictive, and evil-minded women, of which there are hundreds of millions.

Women are like Jews, Blacks, LGBTQZKPRBF, etc. Just another identity politics group.

One thing about the Jews is they never stopped pushing. I know their history. They would push and push and make the Gentiles more and more angry. Some smart Jews always said,

“Hey, we keep going like this, they’re going to start a pogrom against us.”

Of course that’s an insult to any belligerent Jew, and if you tell him he’s pissing the Gentiles off, the Jew’s response is to get his back up, attack like a psycho, and scream, “The Gentiles don’t like it? Fine! Then we’ll do it 10 times harder!” So what happened after a while. Duh. A pogrom. Another expulsion.

Most sane humans know that if you are really pissing someone off so badly that they are close to their breaking point and may get destructive or dangerous that it’s time to back off on the attack and get away from the person. Many hospital beds have been occupied by idiots who pushed people to their limits, and when people warned them they were pushing people too far, said, “Fine! I’ll do it 10 times as much!” it’s an excellent way to get your ass beat. Which has been happening to the Jews for centuries.

Anyway, my point is all Identity Politics groups do just this. If you tell them they are crazy and they are pissing people off and causing a huge backlash, they all get outraged, get their backs up and scream, “They don’t like it! Fine! Then we will do it 10 X harder. ”

None of these groups ever stop pushing. Blacks will never stop. They will just push, push, push.

The gays get more demanding, weird and radical every year.

The trannies are the same, except they are far weirder than even the gays.

And like all of these other groups, of course feminists never know when to stop either.

To feminists, the patriarchy is as immobile and untouchable as God Himself. It’s a known physical fact of the universe like black holes that will never go away.

Anyway, keeping the patriarchy around even if it doesn’t exist gives feminists something to do and something to yell about. And indeed the feminists keep pushing. The definition of rape expands nearly every year, as does the concept of sexual harassment, at the same time as the definition of consent gets more narrowed. Of course these policies are designed to completely screw men over while leaving women untouched. Hey, I told you women were fair and magnanimous.

Sex Negative Feminism, now the principal kind of feminism that has taken over all of society, keeps getting worse every year.  #Metoo will not just grow but it will expand in definition because angry ideologues with a punishing agenda – especially grievance feminists – never know when to stop.

I figure looking at a woman will at least be sexual assault in 10-20 years, assuming the female snowflake was made uncomfortable by it of course. Asking for a number or asking for a date will be seen as rape if you made the woman uncomfortable.

Feminists will develop a new stupid slogan, “Making Women Uncomfortable Is Rape!”

Feminist men, cucks, white knights and other fags will of course fall all over themselves saying  that uncomfortableness is rape, and they never make woman uncomfortable, or if they do somehow screw up and do so, they immediately get on their knees and kiss the feet of these superior queens called females.

Expect Jessica Valenti to lead the Crazy Brigade. Have you seen her column? A lot of it is Street Harassment Is Evil! but she recently published a piece called, How Come Men Don’t Look at Me Anymore? talking about how much it hurts to lose all that male attention. What a dumb bitch. And women wonder why we call them stupid.

If anyone is wondering if this post is misogynistic, in my view there are two kinds of women, real women and feminists.

I love real women with all my heart and soul as much as I love my wonderful mother.

The feminists? Well, I would not mind if they all met Mark Lepine. After all, he didn’t act alone. Who else pulled the trigger that day, if only in their minds? I sure did.


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Game/PUA: Approached Six Times and Rejected Six Times – What Went Wrong?

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I approached all except for one on the street. The sixth I approached in the mall. In all six cases, I was walking, and they were going in the opposite direction as I was.

Some bad reactions:

  • With one girl on the street, I said, “How are you?” to her as she was walking towards me, and she lifted her finger up and said, “NO!!!!!”

  • I said “Hello, you look fine today,” to a girl in the mall, and she looked at me like I was a sexual predator about to rape her and even turned a second time to see me again looking in disbelief.

Those reactions are pretty bad. Especially the one who held her finger up and said, “No!”. That was just brutal.

OK, first things first here. You can’t approach women on the street. It never works.

To Approach, You Need a Smile and a Reason

Second, you need a reason to approach. And first of all you must get a signal. A signal typically means a smile. I still get these smiles. But the smile doesn’t mean much. A lot of the time, it just means you are not a hideous autistic creepozoid tard. It means you are normal and maybe you have decent looks.

But at any rate, if you get the smile, you can always approach, and it’s never creepy. Generally you can best approach if she is next to you in line, getting the condiments for your coffee, or if she is a helper in a store, etc. But you need that smile.  No smile, no words. The smile is an opening that can mean, “It’s ok to approach me.”

Approaching Women on the Street

First of all, while walking, he approached women going the other direction. This is almost literally never going to work. Think about it. She’s going in the other damn direction! She’s probably in a hurry and she might be walking fast. You are forcing her to stop! That’s a real imposition. Why the Hell should she stop walking in her direction and have a conversation with you? Unless you’re Chad, it’s insane.

The only thing you can do to a female on the street who is walking in the opposite direction as you is smile and say, “Hi.” That’s what I do. Nowadays, even that doesn’t go over well, and I typically get a stone face and no response, but it wasn’t that way when I was younger.And at any rate, it’s not a crime to be friendly unless you are a #metoo fan.

On the street, you talk to females if at all if you are stopped at a light or going in the same direction. If she slows down when you walk past and doesn’t appear hostile/frightened, then this is a very good sign! It means she likes you and wants you to approach.

Always Open by Saying Something Situational

He said, “How are you?” Not a good approach. What’s the point of saying something like that?

Always try to say something related to whatever situation you two are in. If she is holding books, ask her if she is a student. If she has a uniform or a name tag, ask her where she works. Remark on her clothing or jewelry, but be very careful how you do it. Talk about the weather. Anything. Well, not anything. Anything topical, friendly, and not creepy or weird.

His other opener was, “Hello, you look fine today.” Catastrophically bad. Sounds creepy. He is opening with an openly sexual remark. Very bad. You can only say this to a female after you know her a while.

Some men might think this is an innocent remark. But it’s not. It’s not a healthy compliment. Instead, women will see it as out and out creepy unless you are Chad. It’s too forward, too sexual, and too fast. And most importantly,  it shows that you never talk to women because most males know you can’t open with that because it’s too forward, and it looks creepy. Why do you think men get called creeps? For doing  like this.

How to Approach from Behind

People often say, “Never approach from behind,” but that’s not necessarily the case. Approaching from behind can be done, but it is very tricky.

Here is how I do it. Tap her very slightly on the shoulder with the tinest of taps, like you are a mouse. Then move back a bit. When she turns around, act like you are moving backwards. Act apologetic and as if you are the most harmless thing on Earth. Smile. It might work or it might not, but it’s worth a try.

What to Do If She Gives You a Hard, Rude Shutdown for No Good Reason

After you open and are now having a conversation with her, watch the entire interaction like a hawk, paying attention her every move and sentence and analyzing everything as best you can.

If she gives you an “I can’t believe you’re even talking to me, you reject!” look then walk away very rudely and leave the bitch hanging. Be as mean to her as she was to you.

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PUA/Game: The Advantage of Having a Close Female Friend or a Female Best Friend

Some of my best friends in life were women.

I grew up with my girl cousins. They were my best friends, almost like siblings. I still see them sometimes. All I will say about them is they taught me all about women.

Five years ago, I made friends with a young woman in her 20’s. It started out sexual, then it went to “I am not attracted to you” to Friendzone.

We called and texted each other all the time. She was my best friend. She even gave me advice on how to get women. If I had a question about a woman in my world’s behavior, I would ask her and she would try to figure it out.

If I was dealing with a woman in my world, she would give me all sorts of advice for how to turn it into a dating situation. There were times I had women over at my apartment and I was trying unsuccessfully to seduce them. I texted her and told her. She promptly starting giving me all this advice on how to seduce this woman. “Ok, what is she doing now? Hmmm let me think. Ok here try this. Go up to her and bla bla bla bla.” She was actually trying to help me get laid!

At the same time, I really learned all about women knowing this chick.

One thing I learned is they are horny as Hell. I learned this due to what she told me about her sexual self.

We would be texting and she would say, “Excuse me, I have to go masturbate,” and then come back 45 minutes later. “Damn. That was good,” she would say. Some nights she would masturbate off and on all night long. Some days she would do the same thing. She had a driving job and she would pull off the road during breaks in her job, pull into a parking lot, and surreptitiously masturbate to orgasm.

I learned all about women’s sex drive too. I have had girlfriends who told me that some days they were wet from the time they get up in the morning til the time they go to bed at night! That’s as horny as a man!

In addition, there is a physical sensation of female horniness described to me as “a pain in the stomach, but a good pain.” I believe these are the gina tingles the PUA guys talk about. It seems to be a tingling sensation in their abdomen.

There is also a psychological component to their sex drive. She described it as “a feeling of hunger.”

Sometimes she would say, “Damn I need to get laid so bad,” or “I need cock! I need a big hard cock, right now dammit!” or “I feel like just grabbing some guy off the street and dragging him off and fucking him.”

She was a very good friend to me for 1 1/2 years. I eventually ended it because of the Friendzone, I wanted to have a sexual relationship with her. She said she saw me more as a father figure since I was 30 years older than she was. She said I was the same age as her father, and it felt like she was having sex with her father, and this bothered her. I think this was a reasonable reaction on her part.

If you can ever have one good female friend, one nice thing about it is you will learn all about women and what they are really like. I mean really, really, really like. You will understand women inside and out after a year or two of close friendship.

On the other hand, I have supposedly been handsome my whole life, so my experience may be limited to attractive men. I am not sure how a friendship between a unattractive man and a woman would work out. It might not be so rewarding.

One thing that is not necessarily true is that the reason you are Friendzoned is not necessarily because she doesn’t find you attractive. I have had quite a few female friends who were attracted to me but had no interest in having sex with me for all sorts of reasons. Some were married, others were relatives, others just didn’t think of me that way, and others had too much of a wage gap between us.

I will say that one thing that seems to be necessary for a rewarding friendship with a female is that she has to respect you as a man. In particular, she has to respect you as a sexual man and it helps if she sees you as something of a sexual threat. It even helps to have one or more girlfriends or dating partners at the same time you are friends with your female friend. In my experience, your female friend will respect you so much more if she sees you being successful with women.

If you can find a woman who will be a very good friend to you or especially a best friend, consider a friendship. At the very least you will go a long way towards figuring these baffling creatures out. There is something quite special about having a female as your best friend or bestie. It’s almost magical.

Pluses of having a close female friendship:


  1. You learn all about women, and I do mean all about women.
  2. She might try to help you get laid and give you tips on approaching, dating, etc. She can practically be your dating coach.
  3. If you are very lucky, she will fix you up with her friends. In this case, even being friendzoned is not bad.

However, if you got friendzoned explicitly because she doesn’t find you attractive, that’s quite an insult. If she doesn’t think you’re ugly, she probably doesn’t think you are much of a man. So she’s either calling you ugly or she’s calling you a wimp, pussy, or faggot. There is something especially painful about this. It’s like a kick in the stomach to your view of yourself as a man and  in particular as a sexual being.

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PUA/Game: IOI’s, Different Types of IOI’s, and What They Mean

Tulio: How good looking does a guy have to be to get glances and flirtatious smiles from women while just walking about in public? I don’t think I’m a bad looking guy, especially for my age. I’m certainly not under average. But honestly, I can walk in a dense urban area and  not get even one IOI (indicator of interest) from a woman the entire day.

I was just thinking back a few years ago when I was walking around downtown Chicago. I got one from a woman that I think was clear. And a 2nd one that may have been where I kept making eye contact multiple times with this girl at the Willis Tower observation deck. But even two in one day is out of the ordinary for me.

How attractive does a man have to be to get glances and flirtatious smiles from women just walking about in public?

I am not sure. However handsome I was at my most handsome – that was good enough. Probably 18-29, somewhere in there. Apparently I was quite goodlooking back then because women were always raving about how handsome I was. And in addition there were the continuous IOI’s, smiles, flirtations, and checkouts. I even had women do complete 90 degree turns and actually rubberneck me like you do an accident on a freeway.

When I was 24, I had two offers to be a male model.

When I was 28 years old in Santa Ana in 1985, I remember I was in a library once, and every time I looked up, every woman in that library from 16 to 50 was staring right at me. With the IOI stare too. My head was completely insane with OCD too, so anxiety disorders don’t necessarily turn women off if you are goodlooking enough.

I remember when I was 24 in Winter 1982, I went to a music industry event at the Roxy in LA. It was an insider’s event with all record company people to showcase some new band. They gave you free tickets and all the beer you want.

Well, as soon as I walked in the door of that nightclub, I looked out at the club, and I almost fell over. Because I swear every single woman in that whole damn club was looking right at me. With IOI’s too. It was actually terrifying for some reason because I have never had so much attention like that, and I shivered a bit, and a wave of fear ran through my body. I guess if it happens all the time you get used to it, but if you are not used to it, it can be overwhelming or frightening to have all that female attention.

But it’s stuff like that that builds confidence and Inner Game. You have things like that happen to you all the time for years on end, and you end up thinking you are That Guy. And with me it has stuck my whole life.

I must say it’s awesome to live like that. Even having that experience of walking into that nightclub, and a whole club full of hot women looking right at me with IOI’s, most men never have an experience like that in their lifetimes. If you could have an experience like that, I can’t describe what a rush it is. It is what I would call a peak life experience. It’s almost like things like that only need to happen to you a few times in life, and then the next day you can die happy because you have accomplished everything you ever wanted in life.

I’ve been getting IOI’s ever since that night of course, but they have really disappeared lately. My usual day nowadays is about like Tulio’s. If I even get one or two IOI’s or flirtations in a day, that’s a very good day. Usually I don’t even get smiles unless they are from people who work in stores, and often only when they are dealing directly with me. Checkers are often very friendly to me, but that’s their job.

What Exactly Is an IOI?

One day a couple of weeks ago, I don’t know what happened. Maybe I psyched myself into this really good vibe or halo using some Inner Game. Inner Game, vibes, halos, or I even go so far as to call it magic is quite real. It’s a vibe or energy that is generated within you that radiates out into the world giving off whatever vibe you want to give off. The more revved up the vibe is, the more powerful it is.

But anyway, two women in cars, one ~30 and the other ~40 looked at me and checked me out. If they look at you at all with a non-hostile look, they are usually but not always checking you out. At the very least they are interested in you.

Now, it is very hard to describe what a “checking you out” look is like. It’s more of a Gestalt thing that defies description and is one those many things in life that is described better with”I know it when I see it” than an actual description. Once you have seen it enough times, you can’t mistake it for much of anything else.

If they’re not interested or if you turn them off or are not attractive to them, they will not even look at you. They will act like you are invisible.

Just Because She’s Looking at You Doesn’t Necessarily Mean It Is an IOI

Sometimes or most all the time if you are unlucky, if they do look at you, they will give you not particularly friendly looks of all different types that are hard to describe. Now those are cases where a woman is looking at you, but she’s not checking you out. Just because a woman is looking at you doesn’t mean it’s an IOI. Whether it is an IOI or not has more to do with the quality of the look. I mean, sure, women look at me a fair amount of the time nowadays, but the look is often not a good one. I get these looks that say, “WTF is with you anyway?” or “What’s up with you?” or “Who are you?” or “Why are you looking at me?” or maybe just “WTF!”

A look that is an IOI has a certain quality about it unlike the other ways women look at you. It can take various forms, some of which are very flattering. Once you have gotten different types of IOI’s repeatedly in your life, it’s easy to pick them out and even figure out what sort of an IOI it is because even IOI’s differ. But describing it in words is hard because once again it is one of those intuitive things that is more “I know it when I see it.”

The “Oh man, I really like him!” Look

One of the best ones of all is “!Oh man, I really like him! or  Oh Hell yeah!” or “Damn, he is Alpha as fuck! I want to fuck him right now! Damn, I would like to jump on him! Damn, he’s a bad boy! Ha ha damn, he turns me on!”

She always has this sort of winking, secret, private pleasure, sneaky, conspiratorial, and devilish smile on her face that is part of the look. Her eyes are lit up and twinkling. Her body is revved up with energy flowing through it, and it almost looks like it might start slightly vibrating. And she looks like she is ready to laugh in a quiet giggling or chuckling way for some reason, maybe because sexy as Hell bad boys are a bit funny for some reason.

She is often in the background or even behind you, so you don’t see her unless you turn around. It has a secretive quality about it, as she is trying to look at you surreptitiously for some reason, maybe because she’s so turned on, and she doesn’t want to be that revved up when she is face to face with you. She’s secretly lusting after you in private from some rather hidden place in the background somewhere.

I even got those from young women, but only rarely, when I was in my 50’s, but I haven’t gotten one in a long time.

It’s one of the most killer, ego-charging looks a man can receive from a woman in a lifetime, and it doesn’t happen very often or probably at all for almost all men. The look seems to be generated more by the Game you are running or the vibe you are giving off than your actual attractiveness, though you have to have a base level of attractiveness to get it in the first place.

Sometimes a Look Is Only a Look

But even that look might just mean she is fantasizing about you idly. The last two I got were from young women, one 23 and the other maybe 28. They were both goodlooking, and the 28 year old was a drop dead knockout. But one was married and the other had a regular boyfriend who I saw her with a lot. I doubt if either one wanted to cheat on their boyfriends or husbands with me. Instead they were just enjoying me as some sort of a sneaky private devious pleasure.

That look definitely means you are making her horny. It’s raw, pure female lust. But just because you’re making her horny doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to have sex with you! This is so hard for men to understand.

Think about it. In a woman’s lifetime, how many men do you think she sees out and about who make her horny where she thinks, “Damn I want to jump him right now!”? I say 10,000. One a day for 30 years. It could be a lot more than that.

Ok, how many men does your average woman sleep with in a lifetime? The mean is three men. One a decade for 30 years.

How many women fuck 10,000 men? Well, Annie Sprinkle has, but few other women have. So for every 3,300 men a woman sees in her life who make her horny, she has sex with only one of them! All the rest just turned her on, but nothing came of it, often because that was her intention.

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New Photos of Robert Lindsay


Taken September 3, 2017 in an Indian restaurant in Mountain View, California. In other words, Silicon Valley.

I really hate this pic and think it is ugly as sin, but women like it. A woman my age said, “Wow, no way is that a bad pic. You’re a really handsome man.” And an 19 year old girl, a friend of mine, just told me thought it looked good too. Also that my hands looked good, whatever that means.


Same pic, same night. Some Indian waiter came and stood next to me for a couple of pics. My date took the photo. She was a model in her late 20’s. Earlier in the day I had a date with another young woman. Neither one worked out very well, but I was so happy to date two women in one day! I’ve never done that before. A new first.

Just having two dates in one day got my confidence so revved up that I was looking around for another woman to have brunch with the next day.

Three days later, I asked out a woman working in a supermarket, but she had a husband.

Four days later, I met an IT worker, a 27 year old Australian woman whose husband worked for Tesla in a coffee shop in Menlo Park. She said, “You don’t have a place to stay? How sad. You can come stay with my husband and me at our place. We will fix you dinner.”

Just as she said that one of my female cousins, a 55 year old woman, walked into the shop and took me away with her. I ended up spending the night at her place with her family. We pretty much grew up together, and she and my other two girl cousins were my best friends, like sisters. And they all taught me all about females.

My Mom had called my cousin and asked if I could stay there, and my cousin said sure. Then my Mom called me and told me I could stay at my cousin’s. Then she said,

“Now Bob! She has two teenage girls, one 17 and the other 15. I want you to be on your very best behavior around those girls! I don’t want to hear about any problems between you and those girls!” There weren’t any problems. Actually the 15 year old was extremely friendly, and I had never met her before.

That’s so funny. Even my own Mom knows what a perverted old bastard I am. I don’t have any preference for teenage girls of course anymore than any other man does. It’s just that a teenage girl isn’t a girl to me. The only things that are girls are those females under 13. 13-17, that’s more or less a woman, especially 15-17. To me a teenage girl is just another woman to me. A very, very young and silly woman, but a woman nonetheless. The JB’s especially are just way too young for me anymore. They almost seem like little girls, and most of them are very silly and childish.

I don’t think I would mess with a JB nowadays though. Guys my age have sex with a 16 year old girl, and they call them child molesters and sentence them to 10 years in prison where you probably get beat up as a chomo. I like to live dangerously, but I ain’t taking that risk.


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PUA/Game: All Men Need to Run Some Sort of Game

Every Chad, Chadlite and high tier Norman I have ever known ran some sort of Game, and they usually had the most insanely awesome killer Game you could imagine. I mean like 20 different kinds, 5-10 different roles which may as well be whole new identities where they may as well be a different person, running multiple levels of Game at once, running what may as well have been 10th Dimensional Game, etc. Some of these guys had such complex Game schemes that if you plotted them out, it would look like a Rube Goldberg device.

Game is simply all of the things that you do or say to try to get women. How you look, walk, talk, move, hold your coffee cup, your clothes, all of your conversational topics, jokes, flirtations, come-ons, lines, schemes, plans, moves, decisions, and whatever you have in your Felix bag of tricks to get women. All sane men run Game. Your father ran some sort of Game to get your Mom. Chads etc. supposedly do not need to run Game, but when they do, their chances go way up.

Always remember that seduction is basically a scam, a fraud, a con, a lie, a trick. You have to scheme women into bed with a thousand tricks because they’re always trying to weasel out of the bone. Then when you are dating or have a relationship, you have to run continuous Game to keep it on the up and up, keep her attracted to you, keep the sex going, etc. Even most married men need to run Game to keep their marriages running. There is a site out there called Married Man’s Game, and it is very popular.

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Game/PUA: Flirtation Doesn’t Necessarily Mean Anything

SHI: I’m not buying your incel transformation story, “Chad” Lindsay.

You’re an old fox that still knows his way around the lovely ladies.


Flirtation Doesn’t Necessarily Mean Anything

An 18-20 year old woman working in a supermarket was pretty flirty with me the other day. But that doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Maybe she just thinks I am goodlooking for my age, and of course I am always sexy. But I doubt if she really wanted to get involved with me.

Men have to understand that half the time women are acting flirty it is just the natural reaction of any woman to a goodlooking, sexy guy. It’s play, a game. She is showing off her power to attract a sexy guy, and she is getting ego points by getting attraction from a goodlooking guy. But a lot of the time, it is more of a normal biological reaction of a woman to an attractive male than anything else. A good percentage of the time, flirty women do not want to get involved with you.

To find out if there is anything beyond the flirtation. Simply take it further conversation-wise and see where it goes.

The No Sex or Romance Wall

If she was just flirting with you as a game, she will shut it down pretty fast when you take it further or at least put up the No Sex or Romance Wall. The No Sex or Romance Wall is pretty much all walls I think. There might be other kinds but I’m not sure.

You really need to know what this wall means. A lot of young women are really friendly and nice to me, but nevertheless, behind that smile is that exact wall. The friendliness only goes a certain distance, and then it stops. I don’t blame young women for not being attracted to me. I mean it’s a perfectly reasonable, rational, sensible, and moral decision on their part.



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