Game/PUA: Grab Them in the Pussy!

That’s a great motto, isn’t it? I like that. It has a nice ring to it, sort of like an ad jingle, right?

So, what do you all think of the latest blowup with Mr. Trump?

Surely you have heard of the sex scandal with the 2005 recording with Billy Bush and Trump recorded before a TV show in Hollywood.

In it, Trump brags about how he grabs and kisses women without getting their permission beforehand.

Supposedly this is sexual assault, but this is just how you do it. Up with sexual assault! The only way I have ever gotten laid in life is via sexual assault.

Sooner or later, you grab her. You grab her hand and put it in yours. You put your arm around her. You put your hand on her leg. You put your arm over her neck and reach down to feel her breasts under her shirt. You lunge at her in the passenger seat and kiss her like a madman. You take your foot and put it gently into her ass as she stands in front of you. You start feeling her clothes.

You start feeling her shoulders. You put your hands on her face. You gently lean forward, put your hand on her chin, and start kissing her. You grab her, throw her up against the wall and start kissing her really hard. You grab her ass. You put your hand in her dress pocket. You start feeling up her tits. You reach down, unzip her pants and start feeling her pussy. You start taking her clothes off.

I have never asked for permission to do any of these things. Why should I? You never ask for permission to anything sexual with a woman. You just do it. If she likes it, she reciprocates, often wildly. If she doesn’t like and firmly says no, you better knock it off. Why don’t ask? Because if you ask her, she will probably say no! The dumbest question ever to ask any female is, “Do you want to have sex?” But “Can I kiss you right now?” is not far behind. We are supposed to ask for permission to do any of these things now? Forget it. That’s madness. Down that road leads the monastery.

Of course I have mostly done this sort of thing in dating situations, but not always.

The thing is, I only do this when I get a signal. And you should too. Sexual assault is only ok if you get strong signals that it’s ok, and even then you knock it off as soon as she gets angry.

I used to get them quite often when I was young, but even then if it was not a dating situation, I was scared to assault her due to what is happening to Mr. Trump right now.

But the signals are pretty unmistakable. It’s talking without words. You look at her, and her mind is sending out a message that says, “Kiss me” or “Go for it”, or “If you want to go for it, go ahead”. Sometimes she looks at you, catches your eye, says, “Hey, Bob,” and nods her head a bit. That meant “If you want to go for it Bob, go right ahead. I am giving you the green light.”

I know these signals are real and I am not imagining them. You know how I know that? Because I hardly ever get them anymore! That’s why? I’m the same guy as I was back then. Was I hallucinating then and I’ve only stopped hallucinating now? Hell no. Am I getting the same signals now as I was then, only then I read it one way and now I read it another way?

Hell no. I can read women very, very well. And if there is one signal I get very, very often from women these days, it is, “Sorry, not interested.” There are 10,000 ways to convey that, and I know them all. Once again it’s mind reading, but it’s not hard to do.

My philosophy would be that of course you sexually assault women on dates in the sense that you grab them, touch them, kiss them, poke them, etc. without asking for permission. Legally that’s sexual assault, but sexual assault makes the world go around. If you don’t assault females, you will die a virgin. And on dates, when you she knocks your hand away a few times, you might consider stopping the assaulting. It’s pretty low to keep after her the whole date while she’s slapping you away the whole time. A lot of males do it just like this and yes you can wear them down over time, but it’s sleazy and it’s pretty rapey too. And it’s not very nice at all. It’s a dick move another words.

When not on dates, sometimes you can assault women, but these opportunities do not happen a lot. It’s better to do this very subtly. Invade her space. If she stays there, you’re ok. If she moves away from you, leave her alone. The assaulting should be a lot more subtly and gently than when on dates, and it should only be done if you get a clear signal. Even then, if she knocks you away or acts angry, just stop. And if you see her again, remember the message she gave you last time, and don’t do it again.

Mr. Trump is not really guilty of assault here because he states that though he assaults them, which is ok in my book, the vast majority of the time, the women go along with it. So it’s consensual. Consensual sexual assault is not even sexual assault. It’s consensual sexual behavior. It’s sex of one form or another.

A number of other cases have come forward of Mr. Trump acting very creepy and rapey towards even married women, sometimes when they were with their husbands! He kept bothering them and assaulting them, trying to get them into bedrooms, shutting doors behind them and not letting them leave, and he wouldn’t keep his hands off of them. And some were married women! That’s just messed up, and yes it is more or less sexual assault, not that anyone should go down on such a thing, but it’s a dick move and it’s a crappy thing to do to any woman.

On the other hand, men do this. Bill Clinton has done such things. Mr.
Guiliani has. Roger Ailes has. I have commenters who have forced themselves on women. Date rape is as common as dirt.

Not that that justifies it, but it’s just that sleazy, creepy and rapey behavior in the date rapey sense is extremely common among men. If you started throwing every man who did that in jail, you’d jail have the men in the land. We can’t even get a handle on actual stranger or violent rape. Let’s tackle that first. Then maybe we can move on to the he said, she said minefield of date rape and acquaintance rape, where once again, you will have to jail millions of men. After that, we will work on the sexual assault and the grabby dudes with the wandering hands.

First things first, ok?

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15 responses to “Game/PUA: Grab Them in the Pussy!

  1. Bernardista

    Tonight’s debate between the candidates is about to start. I think I’ll give it a pass (pun intended). However I think an interesting drinking game would be to take a swig every time Hillary says ‘misogynist’. Then the game will end when the participants are no longer able to pronounce the word.

    ‘We can’t even get a handle on actual stranger or violent rape. Let’s tackle that first.’

    Agree completely, and it actually trivializes rape to describe a guy as rapey based on a glance, comment or kiss or something like that.

    As for Trump, those creepy comments were just Trump being Trump. I think that most successful politicians (or would-be politicians) have an extra amount of testosterone and probably a bit of narcissism too.

    • Gay State Girl

      I fully concur. He has to live up to his public persona I’m not personally threatened by the comments.

      Hillary doesn’t score points by beating it to the ground.

  2. Jason Y

    If you look at history, Harry Truman had the same problem. He was seen as a very vulgar common person who had to right to be president. He said too many cuss words, crude remarks etc…

  3. He was somewhat right on monetary policy (low growth), but wrong about the cause (he said high taxes), in reality it’s the low interest rates by the Fed which cause a low risk environment in which companies don’t take risk.

    But I suspect all that they’ll remember is “I’ll put you in jail”

    “this is the stuff of Banana Republics”
    I always said the Alt-Right was anti-White

  4. Gay State Girl

    “I could have nailed Diana if I wanted to.” To Howard Stern three days after she died. ROFL

  5. SHI

    Supposedly this is sexual assault, but this is just how you do it. Up with sexual assault! The only way I have ever gotten laid in life is via sexual assault.

    Sooner or later, you grab her. You grab her hand and put it in yours. You put your arm around her. You put your hand on her leg. You put your arm over her neck and reach down to feel her breasts under her shirt. You lunge at her in the passenger seat and kiss her like a madman. You take your foot and put it gently into her ass as she stands in front of you. You start feeling her clothes.

    Agreed on all points.

    But, the only difference is that as men, we have the RESPONSIBILITY not to brag about molesting women. I mean it sends a very, very wrong signal. Noone really wants to hear your exploits, least of all women. Keeping a lid on one’s sexual achievements sounds remarkably practical advice. And for good reason.

    Throughout their adolescence and youth, and even in middle age, many women have had several experiences of random men groping their bodies, leering at, and catcalling them. Many happen to be strangers. Others are trusted acquaintances. Some, authority figures.

    Being touched and penetrated against one’s will does not sound like a brilliant idea. Many young boys especially don’t get it what girls experience on a daily basis. Imagine yourself in a prison filled with hardcore male criminals. The only way for you to survive is to be someone’s bitch. Trying not to get brutally raped is your biggest fear. When you put yourself in the other person’s shoes, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out the prospect of molestation and rape doesn’t excite women very much.

    If you’re a public figure running for the President of the US, surely you must know better than that. Considering you’re 70 years old, it is expected that by now you will have figured out that women don’t really like being viewed as a piece of meat, or in Trump’s case, “piece of ass.”

    • SHI

      To set the record straight on commenters. I have indeed forced myself on women a few times, but it was during my early 20s. Women kinda give a pass to guys in that age group because they seriously don’t expect them to be all that sensitive about feminist issues. “Boys being boys’ and stuff like that.

      But if you’re a reasonably adult man well past his freewheeling ways, you are expected to know very well, that women don’t enjoy being raped. If you want sex, women will give it to you, just have to ask them. If they like you, it’s easy to tell.

  6. the eastern side

    But the signals are pretty unmistakable. It’s talking without words. You look at her, and her mind is sending out a message that says, “Kiss me” or “Go for it”, or “If you want to go for it, go ahead”. Sometimes she looks at you, catches your eye, says, “Hey, Bob,” and nods her head a bit. That meant “If you want to go for it Bob, go right ahead. I am giving you the green light.”

    Well, when your IQ is 140, or even, much more modestly, 120, there’s no mistaking the signals’ unmistakability.

    The problem is rape isn’t a 120+ IQ real problem.
    It is a 90- IQ issue.
    There the unmistakable turns mistakable quite fast.

  7. Tulio

    I’m sure this guy is voting Trump.

  8. Of course you don’t ask permission before every move you make and they usually wait for us to make a move. But like you said, you can usually tell when she likes you and it has got to the point you are supposed to make a move. You also know when its not appropriate and it would be legit sexual assault.

    Trump is narcissistic though. He has a sense of entitlement and probably think most women are attracted to him, so he might not be reading situations correctly.

  9. Grab them in the pussy.

    You mean, like a bowling ball? Strrrrrrrrrike!

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