S. D. writes:
Many women want cuckolds.
They wish to have children and be penetrated by Alpha males but be provided for by Beta males who will raise these children.
In modern society we see this constantly – an attractive woman has “kids from a previous relationship” by a brute and marries a sweet Beta male who provides and cares for these kids.
Omegas are the “swinging bachelors” of the modern world. They prefer casual sex, porn, prostitution or sex tourism.
I agree with the first three paragraphs of our great commenter S.D.’S comment.
The first paragraph is a fact, but do all women want cuckolds? All women want to marry a Beta they can cuck by screwing Alphas on the side? Are there any women who want to marry and fall in love with a Beta and have a great love and sex life with him?
If women want cuckolds, then why is that nearly every woman I end up with demands monogamy of me, often aggressively or even violently? Also most girlfriends I get are jealous of me, often almost to the point of being nuts. They usually don’t trust me and seem to always wonder if I am cheating on them. They are crazy suspicious and jealous of me to the point of seeming like madwomen. Women are also often crazy possessive of me to the point of saying they will beat up or kill any other woman who tries to get her hands on me. If they wanted to get with me to cuck me, why are they so psycho-jealous?
I do not agree at all that statistical Omegas are the swinging bachelors of the modern world. Most swinging bachelors nowadays are statistical Alphas, as this is a rather typical Alpha lifestyle at least when young. Young women are getting so promiscuous nowadays that I think even some statistical Beta young men are swinging bachelors.
I seriously doubt if any statistical Omegas are swinging bachelors, but they can always buy it. Omegas are not attractive to women by default. It’s hard to see how a man who is not attractive to women is somehow leading a swinging bachelor lifestyle.
I have known quite a few players and womanizers in my time, and some might say I led that lifestyle myself for a bit. Most of the “swinging bachelors” that I have known in my life were goodlooking men. The most notorious of all were always, in every single case, very good looking men with male model or Greek God good looks. Womanizing is the province of handsome men, not rejects.
Omegas are the guys who can’t get laid with God’s help. These are the incels.
Statistical Alphas (~20-25% of men) – These men are attractive to most but not necessarily all women. Alphas are first choice of ~80% of women and at any given time, up to 80% of the women may be pursuing the 20-25% of Alphas at least as first choice anyway.
Statistical Betas (~60-65% of men?) – These men are attractive to some but not most women. Betas are the first choice of maybe 20% of women. However, with 80% of the women pursuing the 22% of men who are Alphas, obviously there are not enough Alphas to go around, so many women settle for a Beta on that basis. Also Alphas usually make awful boyfriends and even worse husbands, partly because they are incorrigible cheaters, so most women either think or learn that Alphas make awful longterm partners.
When women hit their 30’s, they often want children and a family, so they settle for a Beta.
However, I feel that many women who get with Betas in LTR’s or as husbands come to love them. I have seen many Beta men in very good relationships with women where the women are deeply in love with them, and the men are getting lots of sex. The idea that all women who settle for Betas are unhappy is not true.
Statistical Omegas (15% of men?)- These men are attractive to none, almost none, or better phrased, few if any women. However, I know seriously Omega men who got with homely or fat women who were not attractive at all and were involved in deep loving relationships with these women with plenty of sex. If you’re an Omega, you can always grab a landwhale or a hambeast, fall crazy in love with her and fuck your brains out. So not all is gloom and doom for Omegas.