Women: You Will Not Be Killed by a First Date or Bar Pickup

Ingrid Lyne, a 40-year-old mother of three, went missing April 9 after attending a Seattle Mariners game with a man she met online. Her purse and keys are still in her house, but her car is missing. Now, body parts have been found in a recycling bin outside a home in Seattle. The remains are believed to be those of Ms. Lyne. The man she met, John Charlton, is now under arrest.

Very few women will ever die this way, and almost no killings like this occur from a man who kills a woman on the first date or a woman he takes home from a bar. The reason is quite simple – how many people saw him leave that bar with her? How many dozen people saw him leave that bar with her?

Likewise with dates, although I would advise all women to get the name, home address, phone number and maybe email of any man they are going out with.

I had a woman do that once on a date with me once, and it totally freaked me out when she did it because of the implication that she thought I might even be capable of killing her. She lived with her Mom, and we were over at her Mom’s house.

I had picked her up after work in Century City, and then we went to some barber shop in South LA where she got her hair cut. There were a bunch of older Black guys in there who acted like they hardly ever dealt with a White man. One was a bit frightened and leery of White men but we still sort of hit it off anyway and I hope I showed him that not all White man are evil.

The other was from South Carolina, and we had a good conversation about Gullah. It was pretty cool to meet some really authentic Black men who hardly ever dealt with White people. I will say that I thought both of them were very good people, but most older Black men you meet either working regularly or retired are almost always very cool people. I think most of the really bad older Black men are dead or in prison. And one of the wisest humans you will ever meet is that retired Black man with a twinkle in his eye who looks like he has seen the whole world and then some.

From there we ended up at her house, but her Mom was not home. This was a Black woman who actually lived in South Central LA. She went over to the calendar, looked at me very suspiciously (which I did not appreciate) and asked for my name and phone number. I told her I lived alone, but that was not good enough for her. She wanted a relative’s contact number, so I gave her my Mom’s. She wrote my name and number on the calendar.

The date that followed is a very long story.

Even on a first date with that woman, how many people saw him come to her house and pick him up? How many people saw him leave with her?

However, all women should at least write down the names, addresses, phone numbers, etc, of the men they date on their phone numbers.

A man who kills a woman on a first date (psycho killer) is almost always automatically arrested. Men rarely kill their casual dates. They do hit them and beat them up a lot of course, and they rape them a lot. But kill them? No.

A man who kills a woman he leaves a bar with is often arrested very fast. There was a guy 20 years ago who killed a few in a row, but that might be harder to do now. How many witnesses saw him leave that bar with her?

Even killers are not morons. In fact, they are often far more intelligent than your average guy. Few if any of these guys ever want to get caught.

Killers like this (psycho killers) prey on strangers or sometimes very casual friends. They do kill women that they know, but almost never on a casual date or a bar pickup. Instead they will break into her house, kill her and leave. If they are good at disappearing bodies, they can even kill women who come visit them, but this is not common because most men cannot disappear bodies. It’s a million times harder than you think.

There are many cases where a man, a suspected killer, was the last person to see a missing woman alive. The key is that her body vanished. Just being the last person she was seen with is not enough to arrest any man, ever!

I know of one guy who was the last man seen with several women who disappeared and were presumed murdered. I think the body of one was found. He has not been arrested to this date. Just being the last man seen with a murder victim is not enough to arrest usually. No DA in the nation will ever file on that case. But these guys do not make first dates with women and kill them. They tend to kill women who were casual acquaintances. Often she was seen at his place or he at hers shortly before she vanished. That’s not enough to file!

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10 responses to “Women: You Will Not Be Killed by a First Date or Bar Pickup

  1. Tulio

    Does anyone get the feeling that American women of all women are the most cynical and paranoid of them all? Thinking a man that wants to rape and murder them lurks behind every shadow?

    “And one of the wisest humans you will ever meet is that retired Black man with a twinkle in his eye who looks like he has seen the whole world and then some.”

    This made me picture Morgan Freeman.

    • “And one of the wisest humans you will ever meet is that retired Black man with a twinkle in his eye who looks like he has seen the whole world and then some.”

      This made me picture Morgan Freeman.

      Do you agree with me? I have been noticing this for a while now. A lot of Black men are very bad, even shall I say pretty damned evil. Of course a lot of White men are very bad or frankly evil too. The problem is that I happen to think that there are more bad actors per capita in the Black community than in the White community. This is not a dig on Blacks and actually it is very sad. I mean 89% of the people Blacks kill are other Blacks. So all these Whites bitch about Black crime, but you guys like you just get completely nuked by these assholes. The Black community bears the brunt of all this crap and compared to what Whites get, Blacks seem to get hit by a near nuclear bomb of Black crime.

      Anyway I am sort of thinking that most if not all of the really bad Black men never even make it to old age. They’re just dead. Or maybe they are in prison. Anyway, it seems you almost never see them around.

      I really like that sort of old Black dude. He seems like he knows what you and everyone else is thinking, feeling and planning, and he can read people like a book. He’s got it all figured out. He’s seen all of life, the good, the bad and the ugly. He makes sense. He’s reasonable. And he also looks like he got a lot of pussy in his life, or at least sex, so he’s got a great attitude about sex.

      I don’t actually hate Blacks at all. There are some things I don’t like about them, but there are other things I really love about Black people, generalizing in both directions here.

      • Tulio

        I know what you’re saying. You’ll find a lot of guys like that at barbershops in smaller towns in the south. They can also be incredibly hilarious. I have a crazy uncle that’s like that. He spent much of his life drunk but he’s completely harmless and every word coming out of his mouth has your sides splitting in laughter.

        Those kind of guys can just talk for hours about the “good ol days” and all the things they’ve seen and done. Some of them might have even been trouble and been to jail when they were young but eventually grew out of it as most men do when they reach a certain age and testosterone levels decline.

    • EPGAH

      America is arguably the most media-driven country.
      But yes, there is something “wrong” with women in the West, not necessarily just America. Robert’s been doing articles about that for years.

      As to Morgan Freeman, that is true, but how many Blacks do you think resemble Morgan Freeman in temperament, or even listen to his advice?
      Why is the crime rate by Blacks at LEAST 5X that of whites?
      And why do Blacks keep whining about “racism” when people bring up stats like that, rather than change themselves so those stats and stereotypes are no longer true?

      Or failing that, at least not bitch and burn shit down when we control the ones who can’t control themselves?

    • EPGAH

      Would you say Blacks in America are the most cynical and paranoid of them all? Thinking that every cop wants to kill them, it’s not their fault, and they should burn down cities to prove how peaceful and not-criminal they are?

  2. Does anyone get the feeling that American women of all women are the most cynical and paranoid of them all? Thinking a man that wants to rape and murder them lurks behind every shadow?

    I definitely get that vibe. But I also think Americans as a whole are a very paranoid people. I even remember a 1999 George Carlin routine where he decried this obsession with crime, drugs, germs, etc.

    I’m beginning to wonder if being the world’s policeman is taking a toll domestically.

    • Tulio

      This is true. I’ve long felt that there is a strong strain of paranoia that runs through the American DNA. Whether it’s anti-vaccination conspiracies, fear of a New World Order scares by militias, chemtrails, fluoride in the water, black lives matter, terrorism, rape culture, etc etc. Americans seems to live in mortal terror of things that pose little danger to them from a statistical standpoint.

      • Don’t forget the new SPWL obsession with organic food. I get wanting healthy food; but given all the chemicals out there, do they think that spending an extra few bucks on organic blueberries is really gonna make a difference?

        • Gay State Girl

          It’s the Ivy League graduates who will spend $11.99 on an 8 oz container of Cold pressed cashew milk!

  3. Gay State Girl

    I’d trust both of you with my life. I am somewhat paranoid though.

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