On Normies

Gay State Girl: Have you ever been in such a position?

When you are incapable of measuring up, seemingly inferior in every which way, you have no means by which to compete, it’s satisfying to find others in a weaker position. Some take pleasure in degrading the weakest links. I’m not excusing this mindset. Just trying to provide an explanation. It’s akin to having a Napoleon complex. Not everyone can overcome a rough childhood.

It’s easy to say “I don’t want anyone else to go through what I did” but more difficult to feel it.

Jason Y: Well, we’re all human, but too much of the “little man complex” is unhealthy and destructive.

Yeah, of course, I’ve also been in the position of being the misfit.

I generally despise conformists. My brother is like that. He always does what the crowd wants. He wears the right clothes, the right hairstyle, and goes a long with whatever is cool, even if it’s morally and ethically repulsive.

The incel crowd hates those conformists. It’s not so much the clothes styles, etc. but that whole going along with society mindset. They call them “normalfags” or “normies,” and they absolutely hate them. Since I have a few gay commenters on here who I really like, I am going to call these people normies instead of normalfags. I despise normies. They’ve been calling me weird for so long. I have also experienced a ton of rejection from these idiots, although I suppose I had the bright spot unlike you two of also having a ton of success to go along with that.

They also go along with all of those crazy social rules regarding behavior, conversation, banned subjects, things never to be discussed, etc. I like to say that they have a list of a billion things that you are never supposed to talk about or discuss or bring up, including a lot of things that honestly ought to be talked about. I have found that the one thing normies hate more than anything else is truth.

Instead of telling the truth, they just make all of these weird subtle comments, hints, jokes and looks. You are supposed to pick up on all of this coded stuff. I am pretty good socially and very good at reading people, so I can usually decode all this stuff, but it pisses me off that they can’t just come out and say it. I like the truth, and I come right out and say it a lot, and that drives normies insane. Supposedly that is one of the ways I am “weird.”

Now I realize that there are quite a few things that are better left unsaid, but on the other hand, normies take this to an insane extreme where there are so many “never to be spoken of” things that all there is left to do is maybe talk about the weather.

And at least some of the time, coming out and telling the flat out truth is the best thing to do, especially in relationships. At some point, it is best to say, “Look I am tired of all the weird subtle hints, jokes, expressions and figures of speech. Let’s just get this out in the open right now. This is a very important thing to discuss. If  you want to be my friend, there are some things that I require of people and some things that you are just not allowed to do.” And then just get it out the damned open and deal with it!

The main thing is that normies always do all of the things that society tells or actually orders you to do. If you don’t do those things that you are supposed to do, they reject you really hard, and it’s utterly brutal. This goes on far into adulthood too. One of the lies about American culture is that it is individualistic and not conforming. Well maybe it is individualistic in terms of radical individualism or libertarian political thinking, but that’s not even a good thing.

And US culture is far more conforming than you would ever think. I have even heard that some European cultures might be less conforming than US culture at this point. US corporate culture is insanely conforming. I have a strong feeling that even in those groovy new IT companies like Google and Apple that that corporate culture is far more conforming than you would ever think. And if you don’t go along and be a normie, they are probably going to fire your ass.

Normies fire people all the time, especially for being “weird,” which is code for not being a normie. I have been dealing with this my whole life.

I am a very good worker, work very hard, am on time or even early (often 15 minutes early), and I even stay late a  lot of the time. I traditionally have hardly ever taken a sick day. I don’t screw off or slack off and always give it my all. I am also very responsible. But I have been fired a lot in my life not because I am a lousy worker but in general just because the boss simply did not like me! Often they started out liking me but started hating me over time. It seemed I was powerless to change this. I have gotten far better at this over the years to the point where I can last up 2-3 years a job without getting fired, which is pretty good.

I haven’t the faintest clue about what to do about this except that over time I have concluded that I probably should just not work for or with other people. I probably just need to work for myself. Which is exactly what I am doing at this point in my life. I have heard that a lot of other very high IQ people cannot work with or for other people either, and quite a few them are best working for themselves.

I am so sick and tired of being called “weird” by these assholes that I almost want to embrace it and just say, “Yeah, I’m weird, and what I hate are normal people. I only like weird people. The weirder the better.” You know, if you can’t beat em, join em.

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49 responses to “On Normies

  1. Jason Y

    The new normal-fag thing is now to grow a trendy beard. Oh, please…😆

    Anyhow, I think the normies are generally cowards. If they had to do something to stand out, they’d face criticism, so they choose to conform.

    Note, some people can never be normal because of disabilities, mixed race heritage, etc…

    • guy from Montréal

      Yeah I really hate this stupid beard trend, the only reason anyone is growing one is because everyone else is, and those hipster beards are even worse!

  2. Jason Y

    And US culture is far more conforming than you would ever think. I have even heard that some European cultures might be less conforming than US culture at this point. US corporate culture is insanely conforming. I have a strong feeling that even in those groovy new IT companies like Google and Apple that that corporate culture is far more conforming than you would ever think. And if you don’t go along and be a normie, they are probably going to fire your ass.

    My computer professor is such a sell-out to IT culture. He goes on and on about how the modern world is shaped by computers, and yes, it is, along with all the negative stuff like a police state, NWO etc…

    Actually the whole NWO police state world would not be possible without computers. Computers built this world. Of course, the positive side of computers though enables people to have forums, blogs, look up info very easily, look at porn lol etc…

    • Jason Y

      In fact, a huge demand exists for computational data math majors. These people are integral in the new police state. So again, there is a lot of jobs out there for the educated. However, whether or not these jobs are ethical is a major concern. It’s really a “Follow your principles or keep your wealth” kind of show-down.

  3. Jason Y

    I am so sick and tired of being called “weird” by these assholes that I almost want to embrace it and just say, “Yeah, I’m weird, and what I hate are normal people. I only like weird people. The weirder the better.” You know, if you can’t beat em, join em.

    A lot of times the more mean normies will call anyone weird a wussy, pussy etc… They’ll all gang up, and even girls and start this name-calling, but never directly to your face.

    If want to see one place where conforming culture is like this to an extreme, go to South Korea.

    • Jason Y

      The movie Carrie seemed to give a good insight into the cruelty of normies. Has anyone felt as angry as the bullied girl on the movie?

  4. S.D.

    What is trendy and normal now is hopeless stupid and forgotten tomorrow. Such will be the case with beards as it was with Bell Bottoms, cocaine, whatever.

    Mid-90s heroin chic models, shell necklaces of 20 years ago. Country music.

    Clothes, music, drugs…all of it becomes yesterday’s nonsense.

    Some Normies cling to the era when they were in their moment like 40 year old wannabe who acts like eminem.

    In ten years 40 year old hipsters with beards will be the people stuck in the era when they were in their prime.

    • Gay State Girl

      I can’t wait for hipsterdom to be a thing of the past.

    • Jason Y

      I mean, “It’s all in the name of fun, of course.”. However, it’s so comical to point out the bandwagon nature of the whole thing.

      • Gay State Girl

        Me too. I’m glad I could never fit into bandwagon trends.

        • Gay State Girl

          The rebels of the mid 90s were annoying too. Think they are defying “the system” by piercing their genitals!

        • Jason Y

          I doubt if it’s about being a rebel. You rebel against society, I suppose, but then you just become a conformist slave to the hipster idea, and they punish anyone who doesn’t follow the trend.

          “Oh, why don’t you grow a beard? Are you a pussy?”😆

        • Gay State Girl

          That’s what I was referring to. It was so ridiculous that the goths thought they were defying the system when it was such a highly commodified lifestyle.

        • guy from Montréal

          Oh those hipsters think they are such rebels and they don’t even realize that they’re the most brainwashed conformists, I can’t even think of any other group of people that have generated so many stereotypes! Just try finding a hipster in a coffee shop who’s laptop isn’t a Macbook!

        • Jason Y

          I bet these hipsters are really resented and hated. It’s kind of like the hate we saw agaiinst “Cabin Boy” on the movie of the same name.

          “Oh, look at me. I’m a fancy lad.” (as he puts on his white George Washington wig) 😆

          I think even my computer professor is hated, He’s the biggest MacBook looking, Bill Gates worshipping dude around. Probably the hate he gets from say NASCAR types working on his car must be hard to bear.

  5. libertine81

    As a social outcast myself (loveshy/incel) with no friends and never having a girlfriend, based on my observations below is a list of what I think are characteristics of a typical ‘normie’

    Has a girlfriend/boyfriend. Engaged/married by the time they are in their late 20’s/30’s/40’s
    Goes to the gym
    Have lots of friends, including close ones
    Listens to top 40 songs and house/electro-house music.
    Watch BuzzFeed videos on Youtube
    Constantly on their smartphones, regardless of location, using various social media apps
    Speak in an accent that comes off as smug, ‘cosmopolitan’
    Has at least 300 friends on Facebook. Also has an Instagram account, Kik, Skype, WhatsApp.
    Always invited to social events including parties, clubs etc.
    Goes to cafes and restaurants with a circle of friends
    As far as men are concerned, a comb-over hairstyle, oftentimes combined with trendy looking facial hair
    Are instantly very judgmental to those that come off as different or even slightly different from normie behaviour

    • Jason Y

      I like to go to the gym too, but I’m not a snotty jerk about it.

      • Jason Y

        Have you ever wondered why they have to specifically have a sign saying harassing, bullying behavior won’t be tolerated? Why does there have to be newbie friendly gyms?

    • Jason Y

      Has at least 300 friends on Facebook. Also has an Instagram account, Kik, Skype, WhatsApp.
      Always invited to social events including parties, clubs etc.

      These people probably have family connections. Everything they have ever wanted has been planned for them: girlfriends, friends, parties, marriage etc..

      Losers, misfits etc.. don’t have that advantage.

      Of course, it’s not hard ot be a normie. Just go to the mall and buy fashionable clothes. However, I think that the clothes aren’t enough though. Pretty much a normie is more than just the clothes.

  6. Jason Y

    No, I don’t think people have a right to do school shootings though. Only a small minority of normies are actually harassing people. A school shooting causes all sorts of innocent by-standards to get killed. Does anyone disagree?

    Of course, as I mentioned in another thread a long time ago, some commenters on here are saying incels have a right to commit mass murder.. That’s ludicrous and hypocritical because they would be the first to condemn Islamic terrorism.

    • Jason Y

      I don’t even really agree normie assholes deserve to die. I don’t like them, but they don’t deserve to die. Maybe they could just take away thier cell phones for a year.😆

      • Gay State Girl

        I don’t think anyone ever defended shootings, but a massive denial movement has sprung up especially in light of Newtown.

        • Jason Y

          I don’t think people realize what cruel snobs some of these normies are. The main focus seems to be on the fact they killed so many innocent people, well at least most of them were innocent.

          Some of the people,in fact, were not killed, but instead suffer disability, disfigured faces and bodies, or massive painful wounding.

        • Jason Y

          People need to quit defending shootings. Isn’t that illegal? I’m sure nobody wants cops snooping around thier home. Myself, I made a joke about BBQ from the bodies of normie bodybuilders. But, hey, it was just a joke, lol

          There isn’t anyway to defend the school shootings. Mostly and nearly all the victims were innocent, and I’m not just saying this out of fear of cops.

          I have no interest in commiting a school shooting. No way.

  7. S.D.

    A 43 year old goth with a pierced clitoris or a scrotum watching Pulp Fiction for the 90th time is pretty pathetic in a Nine Inch Nails t-shirt who looks like Courtney Love or Marily Manson is a sad pathetic example of yeterday’s normies.

    You see these pathetic people in early middle-age sometimes with hair dyed black like Marilyn Manson.

    Just as old hippies in their forties or fifties in 1988 seemed pathetic so do these folks.

    Tomorrow it will be hipsters.

    Spokespeople of generations like Morrison or Cobain always die at the height of the trend…you’d think Cobain on Seattle streets at 50 was a sad bastard.

  8. S.D.

    42 year old Alternative goth in NIN t-shirt in 2016 = 42 year old hipster in 2036= 42 year old hippy with long grey hair in 1986.

    Eminiem seems pretty stupid in 2016 as middle-aged man talking like a black pimp and popping Vicoden.

    All end up being fairly sad and pathetic.

    Like women in their 30s with “tramp stamp” tattoos.

    You wannabe trendy or normal. Tomorrow your a relic.

  9. S.D.

    What does the average 25 year old hipster think of the average 45 year old Goth with pierced sagging scrotum or clitoris and dyed hair.

    What does he think of the average 35 year old wannabe eminem type in a track suit.

    Yesterday’s normal. Pathetic fads now a cold souffle. That is all.

    Hipsters in 2026 will seem the same way. Their beards beginning to thread with grey.

  10. farid

    Robert,

    can you figure out where is exactly MH370 is located? haven’t read about it from your perspective

  11. Jason Y

    On the movie “Addams Family Values”, lol, they took a humorous stab at normies.

  12. Jason Y

    Normies are the pretty boy opposites of the lower working class whites on drugs etc.. While we say the lower working class people have faults: They’re not healthy, chain smoke around 3 year olds etc.., the stuff we see from normies is equally repulsive.

    The normies are incredibly snobby, fake , mean to misfits etc.. Often where I live these normies are Christains, so we can see why Christians were targeted in the Columbine massacre etc.. Note also Christians are the worst customers, whenever you ask people who work in restaurants or retail.

  13. S.D.

    That is one reason Mexicans are working their way up the retail and restaurant change.

    Whites who used to work in steel mills or mines and have macho self-images are now reduced to working with teenagers.

    So of course many of them don’t bother.

  14. S.D.

    Sephardic Jews often experience snobbery from Ashkenazis who regard them as superstitious and primitive and in turn Sephardics look down on Mizaris.

    Snobbery is sort of a worldwide phenomenon.

    Every group experiences or practices it.

  15. Spurdo

    Robert I’m a 20-year-old kissless virgin incel and the truth is I don’t have aversion for nomies (at all) as they’re essential for society in order to keep it normal as we don’t want a bunch of knuckle-dragging fedora neckbeard autists everywhere, do we?

    Obviously not — however one thing about normies that bothers me is that they’re extremely stupid and it’s hard to a quality discourse with a normal girl who looks good.

  16. Jason Y

    I saw on old white man at a gas station, well maybe middle ages, with sagging pants. Get a clue !!!

  17. Jason Y

    quote by RobertLindsay

    They also go along with all of those crazy social rules regarding behavior, conversation, banned subjects, things never to be discussed, etc. I like to say that they have a list of a billion things that you are never supposed to talk about or discuss or bring up, including a lot of things that honestly ought to be talked about. I have found that the one thing normies hate more than anything else is truth.

    Right, you get called a pussy, especially at college, for just having an opinion, but nobody minds the professor having one.

    Generally the crowd only wants you for a laugh or to shut up, but deep thoughts and whatnot are often not funny to normies.

    • Jason Y

      Generally these normies don’t like people who bring up sensitive or deep subjects, cause then they’ll think you weird, hence you have an attitude, your a wimp, not cool, so your thrown in the trash.

  18. Gay State Girl

    I personally can’t stand how normies may take interest in disabled people as their “charity case” because we make them feel better about their mundane lives.

    • Jason Y

      Right, you see the same thing with liberals trying to take an interest in non-whites. Best to just let life flow and not become over-emotional. that doesn’t mean you have to hate people as WNs do, but just act normally around everyone, no matter who they are.

      • Jason Y

        Many WNs, especially on this blog, hate non-whites, gays, and the disabled etc… That’s far worse than doing some kind of condescending fake loving of them as some liberals do, but I can assure you I don’t do.

  19. Jason Y

    Has anyone seen that movie “Can’t Buy me Love” from the 80s, where a nerd pays a girl to go out with him? He then buys all these cool clothes and becomes a normie. However, it’s often more than the clothes as normies might be physically fit, bodybuilders etc..

    Nonetheless, normies are such pretty boys, that their well built bodies are still sissy. They still seem massively sissy compared to your so called white trash types.

  20. Jason Y

    The amount of gays in my area is shocking. I suppose some of them would be more dorky ass normies, like ones you’d see at the gym and never think they were gay.

    No wonder there is so much cotton picking homophobia, everybody is secretly gay !!

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