Spamby: I don’t understand how you can rape your wife. If she’s your wife then you have the right to have sex with her don’t you?
RL: Actually in the US and UK you cannot. There are lots of sexless marriages over here. It is quite common in the US, Canada and Europe for wives to just give up sex and refuse to have sex with their husbands anymore. The cases that I am familiar with are in the US, Canada, Germany and Romania.
The women are usually about 35-50 years old and they have had a couple of kids, but in one case I know of the couple is in their late 20’s to early 30’s with a kid, and boy is he angry about it. He is resorting to having affairs which I do not blame him for at all.
One common denominator seems to be kids. The woman is 35-45, the couple has a kid or too and then she cuts off the sex. A variety of reasons are given including that kids take up all your time, they are very stressful and exhausting, etc. I also assume that a lot of women are not attracted to their husbands anymore. I would assume that any normal woman who was highly attracted to their husband who screw him about as much as he wanted it. Most women are rabid nymphos whenever they get with Chad Thundercock or any Alpha for that matter.
All of this is starting to make me feel really good about not only never marrying but even better yet not having kids. Even if the marriage is fine sexually, apparently she pops out a kid or two, and the sex is pretty much over.
I am also laughing so hard at all my idiot married man friends who used to chide and insult me that I was not married, implying that either I wasn’t getting enough or wasn’t getting any. They made it a big point to tell me that they were getting tons of sex, often every night. I think they were jealous of me though because sometimes I would get a girlfriend, and usually whenever I have a girlfriend she is a nympho for some reason and we are screwing like hours a day so much that I start worrying I am going to permanently damage my dick.
My idiot married friends would hear me drowning in sex about it and get very uptight, challenged and upset, and then they would come back saying that, “Yeah, but married guys get it every night, single guys don’t.” Which was usually true with these guys who were in their late 20’s to early 30’s.
That is the worst age for a man – men at this age are the most arrogant and insufferable of men of any age. My basic feeling is that not enough bad things have happened to them yet. By the time most people are 40, not a whole lot of folks are arrogant anymore. No matter how special you are, by age 40, you have already had about a million really lousy things happen to you, and most folks find that a humbling experience. People who are still arrogant and highly narcissistic after age 40 are generally bad cases, and it’s a sign that there is something seriously wrong with you.
Even when I have a girlfriend, I am usually not getting it every day except for maybe 1-2 week stretches.
Now I am finding out that marriage is not exactly the sexual wonderland it is said to be, especially after you have those glorious kids that put the stake in the heart of the married sex life if the wear and tear of the marriage has not already done the bedroom in.
Not having kids. Which was another stupid thing that these married weenies were always chiding me for never having.
I stayed single and never had kids, and nevertheless despite the typical feast or famine bachelor life, often had at least one woman in my life and led a life full of wild head over heels movie-like love affairs of the century, had a ton of awesome sex with more attractive to beautiful females than I can count.
Yay for me!
Even if I never have sex again, which is possible at my age sadly, I can still die happy tomorrow. I’ve already done everything I wanted to do, and honestly it almost doesn’t matter if not one good thing happens to me for the rest of my life because I can just coast on my memories until I drop sometime in the next few decades.
Staying single and never having kids! Yay! Two of the smartest decisions I ever made.
Spamby: Well, I mean you don’t have to be rough. You can just feel her up gently and then fuck her couldn’t you? Or do they just shut down all sex completely?
RL: I do not know. They shut it down, get really bitchy and angry, and if you try to get something going with them, they say “Ew,” get mad and push you away. When they cut you off like that, you are not going to charm her into giving it up. Sometimes the cutoffs are temporary, but often they last a long time. She typically cuts you off for a long time, and a lot of guys just quit asking for it. They often take separate beds or even separate bedrooms. The woman might have her own bedroom downstairs for instance.
Sometimes they ration it out, but it’s usually starvation rations. A girlfriend of mine had a girlfriend about age 42 who said she gave her husband a blowjob once a year on his birthday. They slept in separate bedrooms, and he retreated to his mancave at night where he did a variety of things, including smoking pot, drinking, watching porn and jerking off. He was not very happy about this situation at all.
There’s nothing you can do about it. I have heard many cases like this, and none of the men raped their wives after they get cut off. But then maybe I run in some classier circles. Maybe lower class guys do just rape the bitch, so to speak.