Any woman who cannot tell if a man is gay or not after she has been around him a bit is retarded. I really believe most American women are retards.
I am sure that all women are familiar with the extremely familiar look of a man checking out a woman sexually. This includes all of the stuff women contemptuously call staring, leering, ogling, etc. Collectively, it is all called “checking a woman out.” Women know exactly what this is, and especially the attractive ones have probably seen it a billion times. I am sure the cuter ones deal with it all day long.
A very simple way to determine if a man is gay or not is to see if he engages in this checking out type behavior, looking at other women or you in a sexual way, ogling, leering, staring, etc. Any man who does this, especially on a routine basis, cannot possibly be gay in any way. That’s all there is to it.
Gay men don’t check out women. Why would they? The definition of a gay man is a man who is maximally attracted to men and minimally attracted to women. When we test gay men in the lab, this is how they test out – maximum to men, minimum to women. Really most gay men have little to no sexual interest in or attraction to the opposite sex. Considering that gay men are not attracted to women in the slightest, why in God’s name would they check them out, ogle them, stare at them, or leer at them? It makes no sense.
I worked with gay men, and I knew a few of them and even hung around one idiot for a while. Some of them were pretend bisexuals. One man was my boss, a gay editor, and these pretty girls in the office were always coming over to my desk for some reason. He never looked at them. They were just furniture to him or part of the walls or carpet.
There was another editor, a coworker, a fake bisexual at another workplace. We would be sitting in the break room, and these hot women coworkers kept walking in the door. He never looked up once. They may as well have been ghosts.
The fake bisexual who befriended me never talked about women for one second. And I never saw him look at one either. They were just not on his radar.
Women like to go on and on about their intuition, but figuring out if a man is gay or not is just about an idiot test.
To tell the truth, I can easily figure out sexual orientation in females. Heterosexual females in general deal with you in this sort of sexual way that is hard to put a finger on. Even at my age when they are really not interested in me at all, I still get it often. Straight women have this little twinkle in their eye that seems to say, “Boy I sure could use a hard cock right now.” That’s what you see, that twinkle, if not a lot more.
With young women nowadays, I get this vibe that says, “Boy I sure love men but not you, sorry.” It is a pretty complex vibe admittedly but I am great at picking up all sorts of complex nonverbal stuff.
With lesbians, it is completely different. You get this black or blank wall of sheer ice, stone or even hate. That is what it feels like. That is the vibe they throw up at me and I assume they throw it up at straight men in general. I can spot it quite easily, and then you have the short haircut, the breast cancer pink ribbon, the gruff mannerisms, and it all comes together. Even when they are friendly, there is still this icy wall that says, “Ok I will be friendly to you, but I certainly do not like you like that.” They have this icy edge to them. That is another complex vibe, but you can figure it out after a while.