The Rules of Life: Those Who Have, Get More. Those Who Have Not, Get Not.

Asian Philosopher, discussing the 500 pound human beanbag True Forced Loneliness guy, says:

I feel for lonely people, but all it takes is one look in the mirror for him to realize why women don’t want him. And yet he tells men not to “change themselves” for women. It doesn’t work that way. If you want to attract sexual partners then you will have to make yourself sexually attractive.

There’s no getting around that.

The worst advice a lot of men get about women is, “Just be yourself.” For a lot of guys, that is definitely not a very good idea!

This is for the most part the only “advice” you will ever get from women about how to get women. Like most advice from women on this subject, it’s ridiculous and idiotic.

Some women will give you good advice on how to get women, but they have to respect you as a man first. In Game speak, maybe they have to think you’re an “Alpha*.” If women already think you’re an Alpha or whatever you want to call them, you will get lots and lots of great advice on how to get even more chicks!

LOL, those that have, get more. Those that have not, get nothing more.

*I don’t really know what an Alpha is, so I put it in quotes. They need to think you’re a hot guy who gets hot chicks, something along those lines. Once they figure out that’s what you are, they will gladly help you get even more! Humans are funny.

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7 responses to “The Rules of Life: Those Who Have, Get More. Those Who Have Not, Get Not.

  1. Asian Philosopher Om Tat Sat

    Being yourself only works if your self is worth being.

    http://www.youtube.com/user/TheSchmoopies2012#p/u/11/tVHIp3dCTZM

  2. Asian Philosopher Om Tat Sat

    When these two posted their love story and wedding video online the bitter, jealous Manospherians wrote him emails telling him that he’s a fool and she would end up cuckholding him with some thug’s baby. Over a year later they are going stronger than ever and giving loser guys like them advice on life and love

    • An Unmarried Man

      Based on this video, these 2 seem like intelligent, healthy and self-aware people. I wish them the best. Too many manospherians revel in self-fulfilling prophecies of women fucking over men, and if the present moment does not actively display that, they will resort to the cynical predictions. It’s what manospherians do. This couple is an outlying example however. The video proves nothing other than that bliss is possible within a modern relationship. There are so many fractured psyches populating our world…this is not prototypical.

  3. Bay Area Guy

    The worst advice a lot of men get about women is, “Just be yourself.” For a lot of guys, that is definitely not a very good idea!

    Exactly.

    I think it was Chris Rock who once said (in the context of guys trying to get girls), “you are not you, you are the ambassador of you”

    I’ve tried “being myself” for a long time. Hasn’t worked yet.

    • Asian Philosopher Om Tat Sat

      The only man I would ever say “be yourself” to, is a man that is highly desirable as he is. Very rare. Most people need a lot of self-improvement.

      Work on yourself first.
      Learn to love yourself first.
      Then only will other be drawn to you and love and then only will you be able to truly love someone else.

  4. From a woman’s point of view, the ‘be yourself’ advice is a good one. It helps make things easier for women, they don’t have to deal with fakes and wannabes. It is the simpleton who takes this advice at face value and tries to be himself.

    When you look at it, we are never at our absolute honest selves in general day-to-day social situations. Why should it be any different for women?

  5. dfkdlj

    I have noticed,when girls get rejected(which is rarer),alot of people will crowd around and comfort her.When a guy gets rejected,he gets laughed at even more,especially by girls.

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