In man world, the emphasis is more on strength than guile; we just say what we want and sort it out directly. We’re simpler and more straight forward in a way, and we’re reasonable, as in logical. Woman seem more complicated and emotional, and sometimes we just don’t understand them.
I actually imagine that in some ways, we seem stupid to them.
Woman: “You don’t get it do you, you don’t get what’s bothering me”.
Man: “No, I really don’t. I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong”. Woman have their reasons, they’re just too subtle for us, or they’re not the kind of reasons we are good at- they refer to feelings. We’re not as big on understanding people’s feelings and why they would be hurt in certain circumstances. We’re good at logic; the kind of logic you use to get shit done.
That’s why to us, men are simple, straight forward and logical creatures, and woman are complicated and hard to understand. Does that mean you shouldn’t try? It seems to me the fact is you better try, or you’ll suffer for it. When you get it right, there are rewards- a pleasant female and an easy life. When you get it wrong, there is passive hostility and problems.
This is why I think that guy has got it wrong on 2 and 3. They’re not stupid, they’re different. They don’t lack intelligence; they just have this other dimension that they’re stronger on and working from. That’s a valid part of experience though. And ignoring their grievances is counterproductive.
First of all, I do not agree that the reasons for women’s behavior can be easily discerned. They often cannot be discerned.
Most of the time, they don’t even want an answer to the question. She’s being a bitch, in a bad mood. You ask, “How are you feeling? How are you tonight?” Irritated, she says, “Fine!” If you point out she’s in a bad mood, she gets mad. Most people, including most women, don’t even want to acknowledge their anger. In my opinion, women are either not even aware of their anger most of the time, or they are lying about it. If she won’t even admit she’s mad, why pursue it? Most of the time, when you look around for a reason, it’s something dumb like, “I’m tired.”
Suppose she’s furious, you figured out why, but you don’t care. She’s ranting and raving and calling you an asshole. Laugh at her. Call her a bitch. Call her a cunt. Call her every name you can think of. Don’t flinch in the face of any crap that she throws at you. Just laugh at all of it. Point at her and laugh. Laugh so hard you fall on the floor. Say, “Shut the fuck up, you dumb bitch.” And then laugh even harder.
This works very, very well. And in many cases, they get really horny when you do this. The main thing is to not get your feelings hurt. If you get your feelings hurt, she wins.
If you fight back, it shows you’re not a puss. It means you can take her or leave her. She’s nothing to you. Not important. If she walks out tomorrow, so what. Go for it, bitch. Knock yourself out. Pack your bags.
A pussy whipped guy is a guy who won’t fight back. Why won’t he fight back? He doesn’t want to jeopardize the pussy supply. He will climb Mt. Everest, walk through a field of razor blades, and put up with endless insane abuse without murmuring the tiniest protest, just to keep the sex coming. If you act like you could care less if she cuts off the sex, that’s some real power. You’re a real man. And she will respect that. Because women don’t respect pussy-whipped idiots.
If you did something wrong and that’s why they are mad, fine. Apologize and be done with it, move on. Trying to understand why this or that woman is acting incomprehensible in this or that way is ridiculous and insensible. It’s as insensible as women.
Just because she screamed at you and acts like she hates you doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Analyze the situation. Did you do anything wrong? If you did, then apologize.
If you don’t think you did, the Hell with her and move on. It’s quite possible that she is screaming like a banshee at you for no intelligible reason at all. This has happened to me many, many times from many different women. Mostly, I just assumed that they didn’t want anything to do with me anymore, and I used that as a signal to simply end the relationship. If they don’t want to end it, they have my number. Fine, she wanted it over. But why did she want it over? Who knows? Who cares!
Men have to stop wussing out and feeling guilty every time we make women cry or scream at us. We do this. We make them cry and scream. The more success you have with women, the more they will scream and cry. Kiss the girls and make them cry.
Stop feeling guilty for making women feel bad! If she feels bad, in many cases, too bad for her! Move on, don’t apologize for your behavior, don’t feel guilty, and don’t feel like you did anything wrong. Don’t take it upon yourself.
The message women give us all the time, with their crying and screaming, is, “You are a bad person. You are a bad human being.”
Maybe it’s true, maybe it isn’t. In my case, I believe it’s not true. I spent years of my life being too inhibited around women and feeling guilty, bad and like a failure for all the crap women threw at me and did to me. The heck with that. I’m fine, I’m not a bad person, and I don’t care if women agree or not. If they don’t agree, then they can just take off.
Appeasement does work in a sense, but there are limits. There are females that I simply cannot get along with. I guess they hate me. Whatever. I am not going to spend forever feeling like I’m a bad guy because some silly woman hates me. I am not going to spend forever appeasing and apologizing for some lame female who hates me. If she hates me, that’s her problem, now isn’t it?
Stop buying the lies of the women and the manginas. You’re probably not a bad person. Women and manginas want you to feel like you’re bad.
Don’t buy it.