There are many, many definitions of such things but this is the best definition I have ever come across:
1. Alpha: Attractive to all, most or many of the females all, most or much of the time. Or at the least is attractive to many of the females much of the time. In other words, he’s “the guy they all want,” as the saying goes. They do not only attract hotties or beauties. They will attract all sorts of females, including the homelies and fatties. But at least some of the females attracted to him with be hotties or beauties, including some of the hottest females of all.
A very poor choice as a husband since most are inveterate cheaters. Confidence and dominance comes naturally and is not forced – it is completely unconscious. Can be anywhere from very friendly to extreme assholes – no real stereotypes there. Some are very competitive but others simply consider that other men are not competition at all since they know they are better, so they don’t really compete with any other men, but they still sort of win in some way anyway.
May be anywhere to very rich to very poor. Some Alphas stay poor their whole lives, live off welfare or women, get by via crime or selling dope, or are lazy or irresponsible. Interestingly, even older Alphas continue to attract many women even far into adulthood even when they are living in poverty or near poverty. Women simply do not care if an Alpha has any money or not. The Alpha is the exception to the rule that you need to money to get women. In fact, a 40 or 50 year old Alpha can live at the poverty level and still attract some of the most striking women around.
This is because women’s attraction to Alphas is on the physical level and not the monetary level. If he has money, even better. This is the “rock star” type. He’s not only a hot stud, but he’s bucks up. Perfect.
Some Alphas are misogynists, but many others love women very much. Androgyny is common, as an open female side allows the Alpha to feel a strong kinship with females and relate easily to them. Alphas often have many female friends in addition to whatever romantic or sexual stuff is going on.
Often they simply prefer to be around females because hanging around guys seems useless, there’s no pussy around (so what’s the point?) and guys can be dangerous, start stupid fights, steal stuff and create often dangerous drama and whatnot. Females are harmless, can’t hurt you and probably won’t steal from you, and any drama created is not usually dangerous, so they are a no-risk hangout.There’s really only a few types of guys who hang around women all the time:
- Gay men.
- Totally feminized/Omega idiots who if not gay may as well be.
Alphas are bad boys, and they relish the bad boy game. It’s not uncommon for them to have criminal records. There are probably quite a few Alphas in jails and prisons, I would imagine.
The body language of the Alpha is one of pure, unconscious, often friendly dominance. You can even see this in the way they sit or position their arms and legs. The legs and arms are often wide apart in a show of dominance. If you see at Alpha at a table with other men, he will appear to dominate the table with the positioning of his arms and legs. However, even when dominating a table like that, they can often be very friendly.
It is wrong to see all Alphas as assholes and jerks. As Alphas are secure and not worried about other men as competition, there is no need to put them down or insult them or even compete with them, so the Alpha can afford to be very friendly with other men as they are not a competitive threat. Conflict often stems from weakness and insecurity. Often Alphas treat the other males in the room as if they are simply not present at all and only focus on the females in the room.
Supposedly when there are two Alphas in a room, they will conflict, but that is not necessarily so. Often they simply see themselves as members of the Alpha Brotherhood, sort of partners in crime in the Alpha Pussy Hunters Organized Crime Gang, Inc. They work and plot together and even divvy up the pussy loot.
Alphas do not care what sort of guys they hang out with because it doesn’t matter. Insecure guys worry about their friends and stress about having an idiot next to them turning off the chicks. Alphas are not worried. An Alpha will deliberately walk up to the biggest and most pitiful Omega in the bar and become best friends with him. This is the guy who has been insulted and humiliated by all the Betas in the room because in their insecurity, they need to put down their lessers. This guy is obviously an Omega, so the Alpha feels why belabor the point and make the guy suffer?
Besides it is a show of strength to be nice to a complete Omega idiot, as weak men will take the easy way out and degrade and laugh at him. The Alpha will stay with the Omega for the rest of the night in the bar, and the women will continue to approach the Alpha or he can approach them. The women will not care that the Alpha has an Omega moron beside him as he is not important. Besides they might admire him for being a nice guy for befriending this obvious loser.
What I am getting at is that Alphas are not hindered or hampered by their choice of wingmen or buddies. To women, it simply does not matter as the Alpha is the only attraction. On the other hand, Betas are terrified of geeky wingmen and buddies and do their best to pick studly pals to up their chances with the ladies.
Alphas are generally a minority, maybe 15% of males, although this is controversial.
2. Beta: Attractive to some of the females some of the time. They are capable of attracting females, but he’s not the “one they all want.” Can indeed get hotties or even beauties, especially if they make lots of money or are nice guys and good with kids. Some hotties and beauties will hook up with a Beta when they want to get married because he will be a good, faithful husband and father and will be great with the kids.
Often in their 30′s, women will grab a Beta to settle down, especially after they tire of a lifetime of getting fucked over by Alpha assholes and bastards. Betas make the ultimate husbands and fathers as Alphas are horrible husbands and uncertain and possibly unreliable fathers. But women sometimes bore with Beta husbands and dominate, belittle, pussy whip or cheat on them with Alpha bad boy bastards.
Betas differ a lot, ranging to very nice guys to extreme overcompensating assholes, but quite a few are nice guys. Unfortunately, you know how races turn out.
Some Betas overcompensate, insist they are Alphas, scream it to the sky, dominate, insult, and humiliate and even start fights with other men in an attempt to be Alpha. Generally speaking, men who “try” to be Alpha are not real Alphas although they can sometimes appear to be. Some might be called “synthetic Alphas” or “high Betas.” This is because true Alphas don’t even try to be Alpha. It seems to “come naturally” to them. Being Alpha is simply normal to them. It’s the only way they know how to be; it’s become second nature.
Although this is controversial, I doubt if these overcompensating Alphas guys are really Alphas. For one thing, an Alpha doesn’t need to raise himself up by putting other guys down as he’s already up in the clouds. For another, Alphas are typically not worried about the competition so there is no need to attack other guys. The Alpha looks around the room, shrugs his shoulders, and says, “Competition, what competition LOL? You call that competition LOL?”
There is nothing wrong with being a Beta as the vast majority of ordinary, everyday guys are simply Betas. The Beta is the “ordinary man,” or the “man on the street.” There is no shame in being an Alpha! What’s wrong with being a regular guy anyway? Betas may be 70% of males, but once again this is controversial.
Omegas: Omegas are wanted by none of the females, all of the time. The Omegas are the losers in the game of sex. Many incels and long-term male virgins are Omegas. When an Omega is in the room, most of the females will not necessarily disdain or attack him, instead they will simply ignore him as if he is not even there at all. Low self esteem is very common among Omegas and has typically been chronic and even lifelong. It is very hard to treat or cure long-term low self-esteem as it tends to be resistant to treatment.
Omegas are passive, shy, weak, sensitive and emotional. They avoid all conflict and are afraid to approach others or especially women.
There is a type of “active Omega” or “extroverted Omega,” who, while still quite a geek, is nevertheless quite outgoing. These men often bother or pester uninterested women and are often accused by females of sexual harassment. Some stalk, harass, hide and jump out at women, grab them inappropriately and are just generally “creepy.” These men are “cringe-worthy” as their geeky, embarrassing extrovertedness is inappropriate, offensive, pitiful and often inducing “cringing” in those around them.
Females call Omegas creeps, losers, geeks, idiots, fools, nerds, etc. Females laugh at them but also hold them in extreme contempt. Strangely, females are also often afraid of Omegas as they wrongly associate creepiness with dangerousness when in fact dangerous sociopaths are often charming ladies’ men.
Other males’ attitudes towards Omegas varies. Omegas do not necessarily lack friendships and tend to form close bonds with other males, who are typically also Omegas. They hold “pity parties” and drown their woes in booze or maybe dope. An Omega will often make an excellent loyal friend to any man. On the downside, they can be pitiful and depressing to be around.
Some Omegas start to strongly hate females as many females have typically been very cruel to them for a long time. Some long to lash out at the females who they think have hurt them. This is not really irrational since if you hit a man enough times, he might start hitting back.
A few Omegas are simply dangerous. They hoard weapons, hide themselves away from other humans, play video games all day in the basement and just generally act weird. At times, their pent up rage explodes in horrific ways and people end up dead. Quite a few of the recent notorious school shooters were this type of “dangerous Omega.”
Omegas often do form relationships with or even marry women, often later in life. These tend to be “last in line” females who feel rejected by society, men and even other women. They are shy, often have low self esteem and bond with the Omega as they see themselves as more or less Omega Women (yes females also have hierarchies).
These marriages are not necessarily as horrible as one might think as the female Omega sees the male Omega as her peer. It’s “this Omega and me against the cold, cruel world.” The Omega and his Omega girl have both been horribly beat up by life, so neither one wants to put the other down or imitate the bullies and meanies who have caused them so much pain in life.
Omega men are not necessarily terrible in bed, and once they get with an Omega woman, they can often have a lot of sex, possibly from pent-up frustration or because males of all types are capable of being sex maniacs. Omega women are often frustrated by men and lack of sex and they can be quite maniacal in bed, possibly making up for lost time.
Many Omegas are very nice guys, almost too nice. Many seem to have had all of the cruelty and meanness sucked out them. They are passive, kind, often loving, warm and frequently submissive. Many are “the ultimate nice guys.” They abhor conflict and often let people beat up on them just to have some friends since they feel they deserve it or can’t do better.
The natural submissiveness of the Omega unfortunately brings out the natural animal urge to dominate present in humans, so Omegas are frequently bullied, often all through life. Omegas are often depressed and/or anxious, trips to the therapist are not uncommon, and many are on psychiatric meds for this or that. Suicide attempts are not uncommon. Curiously, many Omegas make excellent employees as they often have very high moral values and are very conscientious.
Omegas probably make good albeit weak husbands and are probably devoted fathers.
Omegas are “too nice for their own good.” Omegas will never stand up to women are frequently end up pussy-whipped. They take any insult from women and just get horribly hurt and never fight back. Instead they feel devastated and sulk off to their room. If there is a sex attempt soon afterwards, they will often be impotent as they are still too devastated from being horribly bitched out.
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