How Many Men Have Had Sex with Another Man?

Steve asks:

25% full sex with a man!? :-O What, in jail?

That figure is from a Playboy Magazine study from the 1970’s. I suspect that it is correct.

Another figure is the Kinsey Report number of 37% of men having sex with another man, but that figure is probably too high.

It is very hard to poll such things because men lie about it so much.

The number of non-gay men who have had sex with another man is higher than you would ever think. Most of these contacts appear to be experimental or exploratory among young men. These men are basically straight but have had a minor amount of trivial or minor sexual experience in their histories.

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16 responses to “How Many Men Have Had Sex with Another Man?

  1. Adam

    Any man that has sex with another man, or does anything sexual with another man is GAY. pure and simple. Their is no in between their. Their is no experimentation, that is just absurd to me. If you do anything sexual with another man, then you are gay. Their is nothing wrong with being gay, but to a heterosexual man, the thought of doing anything with another man is repulsive. Maybe in the seventies if people were on drugs so much that they thought the guy was a girl, that might explain it, but other than that, that study sounds like it has as much credibility as Tim Fatsano.
    I think every guy in history at times gets so damn horny they will have sex with a head of lettuce, but regardless of how horny someone gets, a heterosexual man is never going to get turned on by a man. Not only that but is completely repulsive. I know others will disagree sharply, but that is my two cents. If you do anything with a man sexually, you are in fact a Gay man.

  2. ishmael

    The main reason why there is such a stigma to being gay is the ‘bottoms’. Their characteristics are feminine and will quickly isolate a man from social circles of other straight men. Looking good is fine, but bottom homosexuals overemphasize their looks in a prissy, overdone way – like how a woman attracts a man. I have known straight men that didn’t have a lisp, talked professionally and displayed dominance. I could have a beer with him after work. Hell, in fact, many mentally and physically weak straight men are intimidated by much larger gays the same way a woman may be with a man.

    Just an observation. I know many gay couples are both top and bottom.

    As for me, I’m repulsed by anal sex in all forms and that’s the bread and butter for homosexual men.

    (EXPLICIT)

    But I am attracted to submissiveness. Kind of like how I view small Asian women as fun sex toys, even though I am not fully attracted to them. If a man is pretty to the point of being a girl in facial features, smaller in height/size and mannerisms, and don’t have masculine features, I wouldn’t mind them balking at my tall frame and chocking on my cock and forcing them to kiss my feet. But the job would be done with his shorts on for I have no attraction to another man’s genitalia or ass for the matter. I also wouldn’t touch him in a sexual way, he is pleasuring me. I just get turned on by being ‘served’.

    Bottom gays just irk me. Same with butch Maddow-like females.

    • ishmael

      “Hell, in fact, physically weak straight men are intimidated by much larger gays the same way a woman may be with a man.”

      removed mentally*. Lets be honest, if there was no laws and no weapons and there was this huge 400 pound black guy looking around town for man ass, men would shit their pants.

  3. Steve

    I’d only take that as a loose estimate, given the sources and times. I don’t know whether to believe it but it has raised the possibility in my mind that a significant minority might have done it. Very surprising if its true.

  4. Kent

    Let me speak for the “straight “man who enjoys sex with a man once in a while…

    For me it is about two things: taboo and the physical feeling of getting boned. Nobody would guess I’m “gay “… Lead carpenter, a wife and kids, GF on the side, VERY active sex life with both wife and GF… But being penetrated by a big **** in the bum FEELS GOOD! Thats all there is to it for me.

    • neil

      Good for you , I believe most guys think about what it would be like with another guy , just as women think about what it would be like with another women , I think if you want to try then just do it , its no big deal , I would certainly give it a go if the opportunity arouse with the right guy and we where mutually attracted and hit it off together . But haven’t met anyone yet

      • How would you describe your orientation, straight, gay or bi?

        • neil

          Not sure , but think I would like to try bi , could be fun with the right person , do you know anyone interested ???

        • LOL no sorry man, but the sex newspapers are full of what I would call gay men wanting to suck straight guys’ dicks. One of my friends did it once! He bought the paper, called up one of the queers, guy was like come over right now. He went over there, porn on TV, had a drink, got down to business, queer sucked his cock. He told me he just laid back and fantasized he was with a chick – he fantasized a female porn star was sucking his cock. He said the guy gave great head. He also said that fags and whores give the greatest head. Most straight women can’t suck cock worth a damn. I don’t know about the fags part, but I have been with a few whores in my time. They will suck your cock like there was a hurricane on it!

          Whores and queers should hold seminars and teach straight women how to do it right!

        • There is also a forum called shy big guys or something. That’s not my orientation, but they linked to one of my pieces. Reading there, I thought they were very pleasant and perceptive guys, and some were very strong bisexuals in both directions. They were also some of the most perceptive people I have ever read on the realities of sexual orientation, which most folks are complete idiots about, and that is assuming they are not totally insane about the issue.

          I really think most straights and even a lot of gays and idiots but most just completely bonkers about sexual orientation. They don’t understand it and it makes them crazy. Basically the subject is just off-limits. Some of the most perceptive voices I have ever read on this subject were from gay men, but a lot of gay men are nutty and stupid about this too.

          I do not know why, but the subject of male homosexuality just seems to drive most straight men and straight women completely nuts. They can’t cope with it. It’s too freaky. And they have some profoundly lame cognitions about it too.

          The gay side is politicized so there is a lot of nonsense about orientation coming out of Gay Identity Politics. Any Identity Politics is the deathbed of all theory and even sense. They are pure ideologues – basically irrational screamers.

        • neil

          Reading your reply it appears that you have some latent frustrated desires to be Involved with a guy my be that’s why you keep referring to people as guys whores and the likes
          It obviously bothers you you should confront your demand and give it a try

        • Look man I am going to ban you if you do not stop this stupid line of thinking.

        • neil

          Well Robert , we seem to have touched a bit nerve ??? There is obviously some truth here especially with all your denials , you need to be true to yourself mate and just let it happen , do not be afraid of your inner feelings , who knows you may even enjoy your self , also there are plenty of discreet guys for you to meet up with . Take care and enjoy , Im sure you will love it you definitely seem the type
          Love neil

        • All right you are banned. Typical gay propaganda. If you deny that you are gay or bisexual, then that means you are gay or bisexual! Right! Really makes a lot of sense!

          HAND!

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