A female friend of mine is surprised that there are young, intelligent, single guys who aren’t getting any. But this is the typical line of women. They always assume that guys can get laid anytime they want to, and they are amazed that there are any guys who aren’t getting any, or who haven’t gotten any in some time.
This is because a single, attractive woman has guys after her all the time. She can get laid anytime she wants to. I have been told that even homely and heavy women can more or less get laid anytime they want to, if they want to lower their standards enough. This is because guys always want to fuck, and a lot of guys will just fuck anything. My neighborhood is full of heavy and homely women, some very homely and very heavy, sometimes both. They’ve more or less all got men, and the ones that don’t seem to be doing without by choice.
Lots of guys can’t get women, or can hardly get a woman. Of all ages. It’s more or less normal for single guys in general. This whole idea that any single guy can get laid any time he wants to is just insane if you ask me.
I know a lot of guys who have gone years without so much as having a date. Good looking, intelligent guys with good jobs of all ages ranging from 23-50. And a lot of single guys go on long dry spells. I know a 52 year old virgin. In my old town, it was well known that there were some guys, not gay, who had never been seen with a woman.
Now some of these guys are kind of weird, some are angry, some are shy, but some of are none of the above.
I’m not surprised that some commenters on this site are having a hard time getting women. That’s just normal to me.
Women don’t give it up that easily, and they usually want something in return. The ~15% alphas get ~85% of best women, and a lot of the rest of guys are left holding the bag.
Even in this poor town, I don’t have many women after me these days. I’m not young anymore, but a few women have said I look great for my age, better than most guys my age. I’m not pathologically shy, and I can have a pretty slick personality. I dated hundreds of women, I know women very well, I know how to act around them and how to play the game.
Nevertheless, I go around town, and honestly, most women don’t even give me a second look most of the time. Young women almost universally ignore me, apparently due to age. I can barely even look at them or even try to talk to them, even if they are at the counter while I’m buying something.
They typically assume that I’m trying to pick up on them, but I’m usually just trying to talk . They tend to shut down the conversations really quickly. When I talk to them again, I say almost nothing, because conversation is closed off.
I even have a reputation in a few places as being an aging lecher, and I never even asked any of them out. All I made the mistake of doing was looking at them and trying to engage them in conversation. There are a few I still talk to, but I am totally paranoid the whole time I am talking to them to make sure I’m cool and don’t say anything weird or especially anything that is remotely sexual in any way.
The weird thing is I think now I have a reputation for trying to pick up on young chicks, or younger women period. It’s nonsense. The only reputation I deserve is trying to have a conversation. If I’m trying to pick up on you, you’re going to know. At the very least, I am going to be flirting with you very heavily and openly, and if I’m serious, I’m going to ask you for your phone number. If I’m not asking for your number, I’m not trying to pick you up, real simple. How women think you’re trying to fuck them when you ask about the weather is beyond me.
Honestly, I don’t think even women my age look at me all that much. Most of them aren’t much to look at anymore anyway, and most of them seem like they aren’t horny anymore either. A lot of them are pretty unhappy too. They look bad; they feel bad. Great. I look at them and think, “Yuck.”
I think I am at the age where I’m not seen as attractive by women in general. I’m grandpa to the young uns, and the older ones are burned out and out of the game.
I have good social skills, probably still have good looks, am funny, very smart, have lot of experience with women and know how to talk and act around them. If I have this many problems, I could imagine what other guys are going through, especially those without much experience or don’t know very well how to talk or act around women.What about guys who are shy, nervous, weird, lack social skills? I can’t see it.
The fact that guys just can’t get it any old time in general like women can is why guys just say fuck it and get married. Men claim they marry for love, but really they marry for sex. Steady, reliable, no hassle, regular sex. You don’t have to worry about it anymore. It’s right there in your bed every night, and all you have to do is ask.