I found that this site, for the support of the involuntarily celibate, to be fascinating. We recently had a commenter on the site state that he was 40 and has never had luck with women. Another said that he was 30 and was still a virgin (whatever that means). I would to give complete support to both of these guys and any others in that boat. Most single guys go through periods, often long ones, when they are not having any sex. I certainly have. So most single guys are involuntarily celibate for some time or other.
In reality, the site is really is not about incels which is what most single guys are at one point or another, but is more about male virgins. Worse than merely being virginal, it appears that many of them have had no sexual or romantic experience at all in any way whatsoever.
We get to the quandary of what exactly is a virgin. A guy who runs through his teen years making out with dozens of girls but never sticks his dick in one is hardly what we are talking about here. Any genital sex at all, oral, manual, anal or intercourse, ought to qualify as loss of virginity. The intercourse cult has got to go.
There are also women on the board. Many single women go through periods, often long ones, of celibacy, but for most of them, it seems more voluntary than it is with the guys. Women seem to be able to do celibacy better than most guys anyway.
There are quite a few fascinating threads on the site, and I can’t stop reading it.
Lots of people are assumed to be virgins or sexually inexperienced. I was asked that as a young man, when I had had lots of sex under my belt. But if I was going through an incel period or they had never seen me with a women, the assumption was automatically that I was some kind of a virgin. I was always a rather shy and quiet introverted type too, so that just adds fuel to the fire. People always assume introverts never get laid.
I even get asked that at this late date. Some moron friend of mine asked me a few years ago if I was a virgin, if I’d ever had a date or if I’d ever had a girlfriend. Weird, with my experience. But lately I’m usually not seen with a woman, so all of my wild past evaporates into thin air. People only know what they see anyway.